Everybody has a Dark Side

I not only believe in this but also that we must spend part of our lives getting acquainted with our dark side to be able to have it under control. This can we achieved up to some point if we work on it. Don`t you agree?

I do agree because everybody has their breaking point. Life can be stressful which can cause us to act in ways we generally wouldn't. Also past life experiences can dictate how we act or react to certain situation. Or we simply can wake up on the wrong side of the bed and not want to be bothered so people may feel we have a bad attitude instead of just a bad day.

yes I guess we do have a dark sidel ike when I get really angry at someones behavior I feel like clobbering him over the head but I will not as thats bad, and he really is just a nice mouthy person who thinks everyone wants to hear his outlandish stories.

I agree on that. Why? Because there maybe people who really seem to be awfully nice. I mean, their niceness to other people maybe really coming from their hearts and not just a front. But there will always come a time wherein they might feel that they are fed up with some issues and that putting up a mask might be just the only way.

yes evryone has a dark side thats the negative side of us. No matter hw good a person is he or she does has some negatives to go with positives but its the controling powes that divide good from bad. person who succumbs to these negativities develops these bad qualities or traits in their character while those who learn to overcome these develop good characteristic traits

I believe everyone and anyone can get mad to the point they get a bad attitude.

You can say that again that everybody has a dark side even if he is the nicest person. There is no perfect person in this world. I am a good and soft-hearted person, but I also have my weakness in some fields although I am trying to be perfect. Sometimes I can easily be influenced by something that it aafects my mood towards life and work. But this kind of mood won't stay long before I come back to normal again. Thank you for the discussion and have a good day.

No one can say and raise a hand that he/she is perfect and haven't done any serious mistake in his/her life. The most important thing is- learn the best lesson and try to change for the better.

That's true. Even if the person is so nice, you will see he has dark side too. It's the same thing with a very bad person, they have soft spots too.

Hi, You are right. Everybody has dark side. No one is perfect. In the beginning when we meet someone we feel very nice and we behave each other very nicely. But we come to know the bad side after coming into close contacts. But there should be good side also. If she had bad side and now she is trying to improve then you can keep contact with her.

our attitude will really depend on us on how we react to a certain things and i agree that everybody has a dark side.. we cant always be nice to everyone.. sometimes we feel some selfishness and envy over something for someone and that is a dark side already so it is how we react and how to control our attitude towards something..

Yes, totally. Everybody does have a dark side to them. I am a firm Christian, so I believe that this is a result of man's fall. You may call it a bunch of baloney if you are not a Christian, but the Bible is true; ti has been proven over and over and over again. The so-called "scholars" of this world just don't want you to believe it. Everyone can also make their dark side their good side, just by continuously working on that problem. But they will never achieve this without God.

I guess our dark sides are there to make us stronger , you know? :) In a way, they always provide us with life lessons. I suppose this is also one of the reasons why human beings need each other. To love and be loved, I suppose that is one of the aspects of really being a human being.