If you were to date someone, would you go for an outspoken one or the other?

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During conversations, this question will sometimes come up. And for me, honestly, I think I'd go for someone who is outspoken. I know that there's this thing that guys prefer girls who do not come too strong and who seems a bit weak, although I am not sure if this is really the truth. I just think that if i'd be given the chance, I'd date someone who's bold in a good way and someone who seems independent. Or am I just like that because I am a girl and it's obvious for me to look for someone who's more of like a man? What do you think? Does the rules vary between guys and girls? When it comes to attraction? And is it really advantageous for girls to appear like they are a bit weak or something? Because in this matter, I think that it's all about femininity. But is it true that guys get taken aback when the girls seems independent and stuff?