"So, how did others make you feel today?"

@CODYMAC (1356)
San Diego, California
April 11, 2013 3:13pm CST
Hello to all of my myLot friends. I know that at times I let others dictate how I feel. I would rather that they all have the feelings hidden and I not have to worry about them. But that is very anti-social, and rude to think that way. I know that if I am upset, I affect my fiancee, or the other way around. Just today she asked me something and I responded with a slight joke trying to make her feel better because she is sick. She just gave me the eye rolling icon. I was not upset, rather a little sad that she was sick. I told her that I hoped she would feel better and she just gave me a smiley face. After a few minutes she was smiling and I even felt a little better. That is how I try to make her feel good and not worry about things. Just smile, and keep smiling. Have you ever influenced the attitude or mood of another person? How was it, good or bad?
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3 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Apr 13
I feel real good. I wore a new dress today in my cafe. And a few customers told me how great I looked . They made me feel special.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
11 Apr 13
That is wonderful to hear Maria! I am glad that your dress got so many compliments. what color was it? Thanks for the reply, have a great day!
• Mexico
11 Apr 13
Blue and black. I bought it at sears here. had not bought any new cloths in a long time.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
11 Apr 13
It feels like I am playing follow the leader, from one discussion to the other... Wow, those are great colors, and congrats on getting it. I really do not buy new clothes much, but when I do, I try to get those that last a long time...
• United States
12 Apr 13
I think its sweet you tried to cheer her up and got her to smile. If someone gives me a negative feeling I try to avoid them until they feel happier. I hate when people drain my happiness . I try to not let others tamper with my mood. If someoneneeds help, like if they're sad I'll give them advice and such.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
19 Apr 13
....... She deserves it . I really like to see her smile.
@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
11 Apr 13
I refuse to let people make me up set, I am going to live my life, and I am going to live it happy as I can right now, I am going to work hard here online keep my mind on my work and, think about all the good things, that are going on, in my life right now.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
11 Apr 13
That is great to hear. Some people do not have that kind of strength, but I know that I can have it. We all can either allow or disallow this to happen. Thanks for the reply.