What you feel when you meet your first crash
By judelen
@judelen (428)
Philippines
April 12, 2013 7:25am CST
Thirty years ago, the guy who crash on me since we are in elementary grades happened to meet me today. We meet because our batch happened to have a reunion here in my place. When we meet he told me that he really attracted to me since we are a child, it so happened that i was transferring school. Since then we did not have any communication for thirty years. Is this have a possibility that he still have that feeling to me? I ask this because he texting me that he miss our companionship even we both married already. Is this true that your first crash or first love last?
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9 responses
@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
that is so long time ago, you are both married, its hard to entertain the though of having the crush love back, its best to answer the person that its future and past is a wonderful thing, but we must live our lives wonderfully without the temptation of ruining faith and trust. treat the old crush as friend and nothing more, its pleasing and fair in both parties involved. goodluck! :)
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
12 Apr 13
I think it is normal to have crush in life. I think most probably as time goes one most people will forget about the crush. I think if you are not married and he is not married and still if you like him it is okay to go with him. I think since you are married you can keep it as friendship. I think as time goes on most probably the first love and crush also changes.
• China
31 May 13
May be that is good feelings,It is not reliable .Holding on the things that you have possossed .Time will let you know that is right.
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
13 Apr 13
Crush is very different to love,he was attracted towards you doesn't necessarily mean he loved you.When we are teenagers we often get confused about love and crush.Anyways if that feeling is still there after thirty years then his crush turned into love.Best wishes.
@Lucifa (42)
• China
13 Apr 13
You will never forget your first love.
Just like you bumped into a lamppost while walking on the road. You sure will avoid the lamppost next time you saw it, yet the lamppost stands forever. The feelings will stay forever.
First love is pure and innocent. For most people, the first love can't be deleted from your memory easily.
Hope this will help you :)
@MarkAnthony20 (73)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
I think if it was your first love but, I don't think about your first crash. I seen my first crush picture online and I think my feelings was not the same before. Maybe that his feelings is the same if he did found you attractive the same like before. But, you already both married and I think it is about to move on about your feelings to each other.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
13 Apr 13
If both of you are having a good relation while you separate from each other after your school study then you may have a better experience while you meet after a long time but you have separated for any bad reason that meeting may give bitterness to you.
