Do you regret about not apologizing?

I got bullied when I was in 5th grade. I would just cry every time these two 6th graders would come up to me and tell nasty things. After about a month of bullying, I just couldn't take it any longer so what I did was I went to their class adviser who happens to be also my teacher in History. I really cried while telling her what those two boys were always telling me. She warned both of them for expulsion. So, the two boys might have been scared by that, they stopped.

Looking back I now know every situation that had an element of someone else bullying me would have been handled differently if I had the kind of maturity I have now.Those days, I would come home from work and cry on my husband's shoulder which as you know never helped solve the problem. I suffered no end during that time. But I also believe in nemesis which did arrive and those that bullied me got it good and proper.

Hi, Sometimes we make fun of others and enjoy. But when we go through that situation we can realize how would someone feel by doing this. We should think before doin anything. because regret after doing is of no use. I also regret for something but it is of no use now. I feel very sad for that.

I think that is our ego to not let to do apologize to others.. I was like that before never say sorry or apologize to my parents... later I changed and I became better to share my feeling each time about thanks or sorry or pardon me..

Some years ago I just disrespected too much my parents. Later I realized that I was wrong but out of fear and shame I didn't gave my apology to them.

I was bullied during my 4th grade, when a friend, a janitor in our school who has a nephew as my classmate gave me $2 as my birthday gift. Two or three of my girl classmates knew and then told me nasty things, words that aren't really true, I didn't do anything but bowed down to my seat and cry and cry, I never fought for my right, I never stood up for myself and until now I am weak when it comes to confrontations, I would often cry to myself and hide somewhere no one will see me,. I don't like arguments, I am a mean one but I put it as a joke, and I don't know if people are hurt by me, but I do tell them that it's just a joke and if they knew me, really, they would understand that I don't really mean anything I say to them. I think I have depression, so I always want to be happy, like I don't have problems in front of everybody,.

I really wish some of the bullies that tormented me so badly at school would apologize to me so I wouldn't still be carrying around all the hurts and mental scars that they caused me. Even as an adult, I was bullied, bullied at work and by my partner, no less, yes I was diagnozed with clinical depression, mainly because of the extent of the bullying in my past. I am little better now, and I am learning assertiveness skills, and to stand up to bullies. I refuse to be the victim and I am a survivor, yet I do cling onto karma that will pay the bullies back for what they put me through. The bullies went unpunished and I received NO apology from any of them.