Noisy conversation

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Philippines
April 12, 2013 9:41pm CST
I was in a restaurant earlier and was eating peacefully, when a group of people came in and having a very noisy conversation with a loudly laugh. They sat on the nearby table, and still talked very loudly that made me irritated for being disturbed. It seems that they were insensitive to people around them, who did not want to heard loudly voices while they ere eating. I felt very disturbed so, even my taste buds failed to taste the food that I had ordered. I wonder why they didn't controlled themselves about their actions in a public places. Have you experience it also before?
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
13 Apr 13
do you know what i hate?....when people bring the screaming little brats in a nice fine dining restaurant. that happened to me once when i was eating.
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@scubapro (1051)
• Gifu, Japan
13 Apr 13
i also hate that moon.its really annoying,and some familiese never even warn their kids when they are noisy really annoying
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
28 Apr 13
Some people like and enjoy noisy conversation. They fail to understand that they are being a nuisance. Such people actually want to catch the attention of others. So they speak very loudly about various topics. Such people do not know the beauty of silence. Neither do they know how to speak softly.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
14 Apr 13
Sometimes we also being disturbed in the restaurant when you try to be quiet alone.Well some people just don't realize this and you still can do nothing about this.Bu enjoy your meal and get rid of this,lol.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
i experienced it like that; not only as a listener or being bothered but also being nuisance in the midst of the people in a certain place. oh well, like you, i may get annoyed and disturbed much if sometimes in my life i want silence. but what do we expect to have solemnity in public places. everyone is free to talk or to have fun. i do not know what would a certain group would feel or say if you are stopping them from their shouts and boisterous laughs. and you know what, when i heard or in a situation like this, i tried to understand them because there are times too that i know we were nuisance too to other people more if our group had fun at that. i guess there are places like that. allow me to give some advices, if you want a silent ambiance away from disturbers, try to find a place which offer you what you needed for a while :) chill - your wrinkles :)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
I usually experience this circumstance most especially on weekends, wherein people come to restaurants by batches even having reunions on such locations drives people to turn their necks on them because they keep the more quite noisy.
@tinayu (214)
• China
14 Apr 13
yes,i have.there are many similar situations in restaurnts,snack bars and cookshops.it is a bit better in some high-class restaurants.maybe those people were really happy,so they wanted to laugh loudly.after all,that was very impolite to other people near them.sometimes ,i would rather to understand them except too much noise to stand.i hope that every person eating in the restaurnt should be aware of the importance of controlling his actions in public places.
• United States
14 Apr 13
I had a similar situation a few years ago at a pizza restaurant during lunch. I do not understand why some people, usually ghetto (sorry just gotta tell it like it is ) have to put their phone on speakerphone when they don't need to and hold the phone up to their mouths and yell into it. It would be so much easier for them just to talk on the phone like a normal person... but anyways this couple, both the guy and the girl, were doing that.... so there were two loud voices next to me yelling into their cell phones with horrible grammar that just made me want to scream. So I know how you feel :)
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
13 Apr 13
I remember an experience that I had some years ago. My friend and I were in a restaurant and next to our table was a large group of people. They were very loud and they seemed drunk. The waitress came over a couple of times. She politely asked them to keep the noise down, but they didn't listen to her and continued their really loud conversation. My friend and I were trying to read the menu, but it was hard to concentrate because of the constant noise. Suddenly my friend lost his patience and he said: "I am not going to put up with this. Let's find another place" We didn't order any food yet so we decided to leave the restaurant. On the way out we met the waitress and she asked us if we were leaving and my friend said: "I can't believe that you didn't kick those people out of the restaurant. They ruin the experience for everyone else, but if they are staying in the restaurant we are leaving". We left the restaurant and had a nice dinner in a different restaurant.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
I understand about this as I also experienced an incident like this. I am with other friends having a good chat and enjoying our foods when a group of people came and choose a table across us. They were talking out loud as if they're the only people inside the restaurant. We finish our food at once and leave the place. It's so annoying - some people are so insensitive and inconsiderate.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
Just last Thursday, when my parents, uncle and I went to have lunch, a group of probably supervisors of the condominium being built beside the mall came in and they were all laughing so loudly. Good thing that when they started getting annoyingly noisy, we were almost done with our meal. And so we decided to go to a coffee shop right after.
• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Apr 13
Yeah I don't like when people are rude and talk loudly when others are trying to have a peaceful environment. It is annoying. People should be more respectful and considerate of others.
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
Sometimes, people can help being noisy even if they know it is annoying for other people in public places. There are instances when I meet friends whom I have never seen for a long time and we can't help from being loud due to excitement.You just have to bear with the noise when you dine in public places especially fast food joints. People simply love to talk and laugh hardheartedly however, instead of annoying me, they seem to cheer me up.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
I also experienced this kind of circumstance wherein people would rush to places talking with loud voices. It really irritates me like hell. However, I also find guilty when I am with my friends discussing things of our interest.
@scubapro (1051)
• Gifu, Japan
13 Apr 13
you know what i think you cant eat anything in here peacefully,in here japan people are really annoying and noisy in restaurants its unbelieveable because ,japan is really developed country and its very great place but i dont know why,they eat noisily i hate restaurants here,i love eating peacefully like you,but here its impossible so i prefer cooking myself and eat at home peace