Be ready to face surprises

Life is full of ups and downs, good days and bad days, and lots and lots of surprises.

Everyday ones life is so full of surprises. never know what is going to happen both good and bad. have a great day there.

You are so right, life is extremely complicated, and it's not a rehearsal either, it's the real thing, so we have to make mistakes, we have to go through bad times as well as good and we have to learn new things. The world doesn't stay the same and neither do our lives, we think we are settled in our life, then something happens which throws us out of sync. It's how we deal with these surprises that measures us for how we can cope and deal with them. It's like we are being tested all the time.

Life is very complicated. And it is way too short. So instead of letting it get complicated we need to take it a day at a time and not let things get to us. Hopefully parents have taught us how to problem solve and what is right for us. We can move forward accordingly.

Surprises are always there, whether we want them or not. Therefore, one cannot be ready to face surprises, because they are always there. Actually, every new day is a surprise. Just the sun rising is a surprise. The seasons that change is a surprise. The previous day, there is heat and the next day,it is rain. This is a very big surprise. The case is the same in the human world. Some people are so good to us. Then suddenly one day, they become angry with us and leave us. Sometimes, we feel attracted and infatuated towards somebody. But when we at last go near that person and talk to him or her, suddenly we feel no more attracted or infatuated. All these are surprises.

Life is full of mysteries. And people are innately inquisitive. A man would never tire to know the truth and learn and explore new things.

I agree with you! One should be ready to face the surprises, whenever they come, whether they are good or bad.

I agree, that some things are better left unanwered. And sometimes when life is so hard it's better to not dwell on why our lot in life is so hard. But, to work to make it through each day and to make our lives better for ourselves and for our children.

Sometimes it just don't work out if we try to find out any answers for anything. It will increase our content somehow,isn't it? I try to have fun in my life with people I love and I found out life more enjoyable. So good luck to you and find your way of living,would be nice to you. Have a wonderful day and thanks for this topic.

Hi! Yes life does have series of challenges and if you have the right "team", some are not as insourmountable as they might seem right away. For example, if you know that your job is ending, try to join a coupon group, start one locally if there isn't one already, and perhaps only buy what is needed until things get better. Perhaps use the savings to pay bills? Clothes? Try a Goodwill or perhaps host a clothing swap with a few friends. In a way, you could make it your own What Not to Wear; if you need to, get others opinions. Is this what you meant?

I agree to everything you say except for the line that we shouldn't try to find the answers because when we find the answers life changes the question. How will we proceed in life without solving the puzzle that we are dealing with in the present? Life is complicated, but this is the beauty of it because when we try to solve the complication by seeking the answer we feel a sense of achievement which work as a driving force to face yet another challenge.

LOL, welcome to the real world...its called evolution...

Life is a big arena. You can play game, you can quit, you can continue, you can just like simply an audience. Life is a big challenge and on every steps you take, there is an equal reward you will get. So it depends on how you will react on every changes happens to your life. The gamer you are, the more challenging life is for you.

yes, there are many many uncertain factors in our lives.you prepare for something this moment,and it is going to change in next moment.that makes you things a mass .at the beginning,you feel powerless and very angry with that.gradually you get used to it.just do well in this moment.

A person needs to seperate one's self from life. You do this by setting goals for yourself and working towards these. If you allow life to rule you it's like trying to ride out the worse storm at sea with no boat. Laughter is your greatest defense, no matter how bad it gets, try to stand outside the situation to find your laughter. It's like watching an insect climb a hill, they try and they try the point is not that they climb the hill, but that you find enjoyment in watching them try. If you can get to the point that you are the observer outside life's problems, you will see the problem but still be able to seperate yourself enough to laugh at the performance. In truth we have control only of our point of view in this life, so chose to enjoy the play.

Life has a way to surprise us all the time...whether we are young or old as long as we are alive we will be confronted with every day challenges what was good yesterday may not be today! the only thing that will never change is the love for my family

Thanks for sharing , yes life is full of surprises and challenges, we must face boldly.

That is right, we should be ready to face surprises, it depends on our efforts and destiny that those surprises are pleasant or unpleasant.There has been lot of instances in my life where i expected a lot but something unexpected happened,so these days i don't expect much,just flow along with life.Best wishes.

Hi yes is all about changes. Its inevitable. we should prepare ourselves to face the changes but it not so easy as we say that we should be ready and change . its very difficult at times to accept the changes as well.

this is interesting and i think that you are right, life is far to unpredictable and you never know what may happen from one day to the next. I think its best just to enjoy life you cant go through life questioning evey thing that you do and worrying about things.