A person mostly listen to you / myLot

Philippines

April 13, 2013 11:28am CST

All of us are having a problem and need someone else to tell it. I am always put in a position that I usually the listener of my friends problems. Problem about their family,about their relatives, and even personal was frequently I had heard from them. So, I want to know from you about of who is a person that is often you talk about your problems.

5 responses

sencis

@sencis (25)

• Latvia

29 Apr 13

I have always been the listener. At first, I did not felt it so much, but then I realy started to realize it, and now I do not even try to fight that everyone around me thinks I should be the one they complain about everything in their lives.

Frederick42

@Frederick42 (2024)

• Canada

27 Apr 13

When we keenly and attentively listen to a person’s problem, then it will be possible for us to step into that person’s shoes and thus we can suggest a suitable solution to the problem. Sometimes, we arrogantly ask people about their problems and then we do not listen properly and then we give some wrong solution, which will be of no use to the person concerned.

anneshirley

@anneshirley (1516)

• Philippines

14 Apr 13

Just like you, my friends always turn to me whenever they have problems. They would often say that my advices are real and they can put into practice. When I have my own problems, they also listen to me and share their experiences but most of the time, when I have problems, I go to church or some quiet place and release all my problems to God. I know He will not answer me verbally but it feels like a daughter telling his problems to his dad. I may not totally solve the problems but talking to Him, eases the burden on my chest.

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jricky1

@jricky1 (6800)

• China

14 Apr 13

A person know how to listen someone else is a nice quality i suppose.And meanwhile good for us.Isn't it?Life sometimes needs us to calm down and have a quality life.So i learn to talk and meanwhile listen to the feedback,thus can enrich my life personally.Good for you.

heaytheblogger

@heaytheblogger (2876)

• Philippines

15 Apr 13

Well I am usually the talkative in the circle of my friends so usually, when I have some problems they know it all along. However, when some of my friends are experiencing some issues, usually I am there to listen to them. I like listening to their hardships and try my best to comfort them in times of sufferings and try to help them resolute such issues.