i'm not one for grudges
@RandomnessPrincessx3 (280)
United States
April 13, 2013 10:32pm CST
I dont want to spend my life basing everything on the past. I look to the future. We don't live there and eventualy we all change, grow, and move on with life. I don't understand why people hold grudges. That says they are not capable of maturing and letting go of what went wrong. I'm not like that. I refuse. Life is too short for thst nonsense.
3 responses
@emily7339 (1337)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 13
I am with you. I always learn to not hold grudges in my life 
. This has make me to live a better and more peaceful life 
. Just as you have shared, life is too short and it will be a waste for us not to enjoy it 
. This has make me to live a better and more peaceful life . Just as you have shared, life is too short and it will be a waste for us not to enjoy it 1 person likes this
@RandomnessPrincessx3 (280)
• United States
14 Apr 13
It's awesome you feel the same and have seen the benefits, emily!
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
14 Apr 13
Actually its very difficult to let go the past, both good and bad memories that is.Its because always some incidents happen which makes you remember the past.Its good however to learn from your mistakes and move on,getting stuck in past is not a great thing to do like you mentioned correctly.Best wishes.
@RandomnessPrincessx3 (280)
• United States
14 Apr 13
It's not about forgetting, it's about forgiving and moving forward. Not letting it bring you down. Past is past. I agree it's difficult. Took a lot for me to be here now, but it's worth it. Truly.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
14 Apr 13
that's very good of you, but it's not that easy for some people. once i feel pain from something. i will always remember the source of that pain and how it felt.
@RandomnessPrincessx3 (280)
• United States
14 Apr 13
I'll remember mine too. You can't just forget. But we are capable to move on. It's not easy. But seeing things this way, it's such a lift of weight from my shoulders. I'm happier.
