confidence

It is normal to show interest in yourself. It's normal little children are "selfish" something adults see as a wrong thing since a child should be social. It's a must. If not there is something wrong with the child. But wrong is this society. You need to be in touch with yourself first, you need to know yourself first, you need to know your likes and dislikes first. You need to learn how to say NO and be taken for seriously. This all you need to get self confidence. If you don't know yourself you will never believe in yourself. And if you do not believe in yourself nobody will.. the only person you will make happy for the rest of your life is your doctor or shrink. How to improve your self confidence? by being with you, spending time with you, knowing yourself and go for your own goals! No matter what society says. Plus pamper yourself, invest in yourself in the first place.

Self-confidence is built with the right sort of encouragement; many people who have potential either become over confident and conceited or become totally diffident if they are in the wrong environment or have a peculiar upbringing. One sure way of gaining self-confidence is identifying your own strengths and doing all that you can to work on it. An individual cannot do everything well; but whatever he undertakes to do he must do well. This will make him strive for perfection in something and this will add to his confidence. One must have faith in God and adopt an optimistic positive attitude that will help him face hurdles in the path he has chosen. This will also play a part in bolstering confidence in self. Confidence in God will translate itself to the confidence you have in yourself. A person can dream big; but it must be combined with practical hard work. Making untiring efforts in your chosen field will yield results and this will add to your confidence. Never look at someone else and copy something. .Be original; this will always add to your confidence.