How many times do I need to hurt MYself before saying " I AM DONE" ?

Hi Jai! Those who start a such discussion know that there are 'experts' like you on this site, who could resolve their love riddles, that is why they start discussions on such topics. On a serious note, I think specially new and younger mylotters here find it easier to start discussion on love and relationship (may be due to lack of their experience). They feel that some of the responses to their discussions might be in tune with their own thinking and they might get a kind of support to their views. Perhaps, they think that falling in love and breaking relationships is as easy as buying vegetables.. Without knowing the implications and meaning of 'falling in love', they keep asking such questions through discussions. It is a kind of normal thing for them to say 'I'm in love with someone' or "I've broken with someone". May God bless them.

I think no matter how many times we will get hurt in love, we will always fall in love once another "right" person comes along, jaiho. I believe in the saying "It's better to have love and lost, but to have never loved at all". Falling in love is the most beautiful thing but it is also the most hurtful thing to those who failed and lost in relationships. Still, people would always fall in love. . . Hmm, i think you are again falling in love, jaiho. . . . .

Over and over again? as i know its still worth it, the pain makes you strong and if the love will last then totally worth it. This is a nice way to start your week my friend, God bless!

Well now it's Thursday. Nice!!! But I know the answer. The answer is three strikes you're out. I personally don't believe in second chances, but my fatal mistake was giving that second chance. Although my mind said not to. I went against everything I believed. I think if someone falls in love with the right person, you will know it. We mostly lust over others and it is most often mistaken for love. Starting with a clean slate, well, for me, that is very hard. I have started over, but marriage is out of the question.

hi jai, There are times we don't want to fall in love again because we are afraid to take the risk of being hurt again but in unexpected time someone will come along and give you a reason to take the risk of being in love. Even we said Enough or we are done with that we can't just ignore the feelings of being in love again. I hope you will settle everything soon I want to experience Bollywood wedding miss yah

Hi, It is obvious that someone gets hurt in love and have a break up the answer would be always I don't want to fall in love again. Because that past relationship has wounded our heart and it takes long time to heal. but time is the medicine for healing the wounds. You would get the person of your type who would be loving and caring and you would say I love You! Good luck to you!

if you have never been in love before, of course you would be afraid of some of the horror stories that come with love. it doesn't always happen that way to everyone, though.

I think it's just a matter of finding the right person but how would you know it was the right person if you didn't know anything about the people that are wrong for you? Love is a funny thing and when we don't want to find it and are happy with ourselves and our lives is when it tends to find us. I think if you go into a relationship with the fear of "him finding someone else" then that is what will happen. It's the thought process and the vibes we pull towards ourselves. If you believe that you will find the love of your life and not worry so much about negatives and live with and believe the positives. Good luck on finding that love!!

Never repeat the mistake. I feel so bad when I remember about the cheat, Blessings from Papa

Hi jai I don't wanna fall in love again... is usually the words that I think of or say whenever I get hurt by someone I love. 'Though sometimes those are just words. Because we still need to love and be loved. And I have to agree with you, we won't be able to know the answer to your question until we fall in love.... we might say we're done, but we don't know how many times. Unless our hearts turned into stone.

Jai, if the love is real and the person is right the s/he don't have the ability to fall with other person. Better to forget about the cheating person, they are not deserved fodr love.

falling in love is only one of the most mysterious things in life that can ever happen to anyone. Imagine, out of all billions and billions of people here on earth, you will find yourself falling in love with a particular person? Some relationship works while others not. Love works side by side with joy and pains...no one can tell when we will ever stop loving people in our lives. It is only the person who can feel when s/he reaches the saturation point.