Why do I tell my personal life here in mylot?
By fearlessgara
@fearlessgara (1113)
Philippines
April 15, 2013 1:54am CST
I just heard one of the members telling why their sharing their private life here in my lot.As for me as I am the who of those.because nobody listen to me and interested to and give time or sympathy to advice me. I do experience that even to my friends before.They will listen to you once but when you keep on telling. they will no longer be interested hearing you or some of them will just laugh at you and will not comment it seems like they listening because you speak but you cannot find their care on you.even you are handling problems.Most will gossip you to their other friends.so instead that you will feel ease and relax.It will give you more depressive mood.
I heard in some research that one of the best way to heal when you are emotional problem is to express out or write in a paper.and through this my lot where while expressing you can see that you are not alone and some one has concern on your problem.That is why every time i feel very emotional.I write here to release the pain and angry that I feel.because through here I will not experience other gossiping me to my neighbor or other friends or bullying.
and yes it works out. from other positive thought it bring me positive thoughts and understanding to such things it made me to become broad minded.and from other experiences which they also shared. I learned from them.I cannot find any other social site that most people are there to give advice and express their self who they really are..
For I am shouting out here what am I in real that no one around me knows the inner side of me.but hrough this site I can voice out all without doubt. yes it helps me to develop to become a better person and healing me emotionally.
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4 responses
@quieley (316)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
Maybe because nobody knows exactly about who we are. We can express ourselves here in mylot without limitations and without receiving any negative judgement from others. In here, we can be assured that we get good advises from mylotters. I can say that there were times I had big problems and I shared them here. I was not disappointed to get better ideas.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
yes also with other ideas It makes me understand to those person who hurt me the reason why she did that to me which I haven't seen before.It enlightens my mind and think the positive things in such problem too. and the lesson from that. I found great advice too. which really helps me too in my decision and to fix such problem.
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@emily7339 (1337)
• Malaysia
15 Apr 13
I agree with you. Writing it out is a way of releasing the unhappiness or problems in us . At least it helps to relief some pressure / burden in us. And we feel much better after venting .
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
and also it is one of the best way to keep me calm whenever My temper arises. through writing I can avoid violent act.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
Exactly.
Writing is one of the best option.
I agree, maybe our friends are there to listen, because they are our friends.
But it's hard to find the sincerity some times-thu, there are few who never let us down.
Unlike here in mylot- we are dealing with different mylotters from other countries.
Some of them can fully understand because they're experiencing the same- or maybe some of them are in the same boat.
Therefore, they can give us advice and share their emotions too.
Expressing our thoughts here in Mylot is more of sharing and finding people who wants to share their feelings too.
We learn from each other and we gain confidence the more we open our experiences- the more we feel relaxed and at peace.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
it is like that we have one soul that speaks out here.the inner side of us that do speak for we don't see each other but we understand each other .Unlike in real world where they take it personally.and some others they think we sounds corny or overacting, and judging us instead of understanding us.That is also what I feel in other social site like facebook it is really depress on that site especialy when you shout out and none of your friends do like nor comment.while some you will received a funny comment or seems like bullying you,
and it's very different here in my lot.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
thanks for sharing your opinion too. and yes, for me this is the best site i found for emotional or personal advice since I first knew the internet world.