How do you feel being single

@prj786 (27)
India
April 15, 2013 4:32am CST
Hi friends, would be curious to know how do you feel being single when you see there are quite a good no of people either with their girlfriends/ boyfriends, I feel being single is not at all bad as people percieve as you dont have any kind of obligations towards other person and you are in total control of your life. Also I hardly see these relationships with any substance most of them seems like to show others that they have someone in their life. True love I reckon doesn't always needs public displays of intimacy, holding hands all the time.
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14 responses
@sencis (25)
• Latvia
15 Apr 13
I totaly agree with you, because single life - it is freedom, you do what you want, spend time how you enjoy it and meet up with people you enjoy being with, without any thoughts of how the other perwson will feel about it, will he/she like what am I doing and most of all, I do not have to worry about anyone else, besides me.
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Hey Sencis, I second your opinion!
• United States
15 Apr 13
This depends on the person, if you are someone who need validation or do you want companionship. Some people need to have a mate, but I don't think being single is as bad as people make it, a relationship is like a job and you must not signup if you are ready for the job.
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
That's a very valid point my friend
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
15 Apr 13
How does it feel to be single? I wouldn't know. I've been married too long! LOL I love being married for the most part. To have someone to love and to be loved back. Someone who's there for me (and vise versa) through thick and thin. It may not always be marital bliss, but that was never written in the vows. At least I know it wasn't in mine anyway! LOL Happy mylotting!
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Happy married life Sacmom!
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
15 Apr 13
it's not cool for me now to be single and i have to deal with everything by myself and not cool with that.true love is gonna come if i've noticed with that,but i hope to meet the right guy at the right time.So good for you as well and good luck.
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Wish you same
@zension (15)
• China
15 Apr 13
I only be single before I know my wife.The life is controlled by myself,and I can do anything what I want to do. But I feel that something lacks in my life.That is love or loneliness.If I have a chance to decide whether i become a single or together with my wife.I will make a decision that i will stay with my wife.because we can take care of each other
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Tha's a great example of being together.
@scubapro (1051)
• Gifu, Japan
15 Apr 13
of course being single is not bad,i envy you. i am married guy and i have a very jealous wife,its little bit hard sometimes. but if i was single ,nobody is angry with meif i come home late or if i chat with the others. but now its like ,there is an inpector in my home peace
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Ha Ha, All The Best Scubapro
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
15 Apr 13
I hate being single! I was with a guy for 3 years and last summer he passed away. He was having health problems when we were together but I never thought he would die from them. Again...I hate being single and it's not easy finding a nice guy!
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
All the best for finding someone new.
@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
15 Apr 13
im happy with out some one becouse it is all about me but one day i will find some one
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
People that loves to be single are the one's afraid of being hurt.
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Does not seems so, as there are much better things to be afarid of then being afraid of getting hurt in a relationship. But anyways to each to their own.
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
I am 24 years old and I haven't had a boyfriend ever and I believe I am totally fine. Many people ask me why I am single however, I do not have a logical answer to the question except for the belief that the right time has not come for me yet.
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Mihama, you are completely right in your place. We should not have a boyfriend or girlfriend just for the heck of it. I dont know about the right time but surely right person has not yet come in your life.
• Indonesia
15 Apr 13
Yeah I agree with you, being single sometimes feel better. I'm being single quite long now and I still want to be single. Now I'm enjoying my private time and being free is nice. It's also nice having many friends without any hesitation not like when you were in a relationship..
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Life has many wonderful thinga around us, if only we can explore them we would not have the dependency of being with someone.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
i have a boyfriend for almost seven years. i would say that when in your relationship, it cannot be avoided that there is misunderstanding, if this time occur - you will say that better if you do not have a bf anymore or better if i will be alone and living alone. i guess, i said this because for the longer time we've been experiencing many ups and downs. and that if it so tiring to have a conflict in a time. i guess, if been given a time to choose or to happen if i would like to have a boyfriend or being single is that i would like to choose being single. as what i want it :)
@prj786 (27)
• India
16 Apr 13
Well seems like you need boyfriend as well as your complete freedon. You dont want to get restricted. Anyways at times it's good to be single.
• India
25 Apr 13
I am agree with you... being single is much better than being married.. well, being single means happiness, freedom, no tension.... no worries.. oh God,,, that is the most beautiful things in the world... being married is good when we are growing old and mature , after age of 45-50 ...
• Port-Au-Prince, Haiti
10 May 13
Thank you for this wonderful question. I feel free to be a single, free for every movement, free to decide what I desire. Leaving with others can be wonderful but I prefer being single this way I control my life and every situation