Is love too hard to find?
By Carlie
@carben44 (322)
April 15, 2013 6:41am CST
I've always had a problem when I'm looking for love, I either cannot find it, or if I do, it ends up sour.
I always seem to go for the wrong sort of people, or the people who like me, I do not like in return.
Nobody has ever offered me advice, or how I could improve myself to find true love :(
I've come to the conclusion that it is just too hard!
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7 responses
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
18 Apr 13
Look , in case of love and relationships destiny plays a very important role.I may sound cynical but hope is the key word here. You find someone interesting , you grow friendship with him/her and ''hope'' that they will reciprocate the kind of attention you are giving to them.After that you'' hope'' that someone you love will love you back too and go into a relationship.After getting into relationship again you ''hope''that your partner does not take a U-turn for whatever reasons.There is nothing much to improve , all you can do is give hundred percent effort from your side.That is why people say that true love is hard to find,if success depends totally on your efforts its easier comparatively, but if same success depends on destiny and as well as efforts ,things become difficult.Best wishes.
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@amundy8 (58)
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15 Apr 13
The best advice would be to stop looking. Let true love find you because you will not always run into the same patterns trying to look yourself. Set high standards but not too high expectations because no one will be perfect, even in looks. Feel out the heart and intentions of that person, and in the meantime, search within yourself to see what you are doing wrong. Try to work on your own habits and choices, whether good or bad, to improve yourself and your self-esteem. What you see in yourself, others may see in you too.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
16 Apr 13
I'm looking for the one who fits me as well and i hope that we can be together and having fun forever.But the truth is that if you are interested in a guy but it doesn't mean he did as well.Which confused me a lot.But anyway,good luck and we all have rights to meet the right one.Good luck.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
15 Apr 13
Sorry to hear that you have a hard time finding love and with the right person. It is hard but I have confidence that you can find someone. Don't give up if that is truly what you want. In the mean time you can continue to pursue the goals and dreams that you love and you will more than likely meet someone that way. It is good to meet people that we have the same hobbies or interest in.
@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
your too beautiful to waste yourself :) Finding the right person will only be attained when you befriend that person and grow your love together.
