when the separation with your friends for a long time,you will feel rusty?

Yes it happens. I think this as a sort of communication gap that develops between even good friends . It has to do with this lack of interaction between people that results in rustiness between relations. It should be conquered as soon as it starts to set in rather than trying after evrythings already gone

This is very common thing , when you get in relationship that really effect on your other social communication. I don`t feel rusty to be honest i just move on rather then thinking of any person. But take my advice you can both plan to got out together with your boyfriends this will keep your friendship healthy and if you stay in touch with each other you can run your friend ship last longer after all life became easy if you got some one around you.

Yes, long time separation will make us feel very distant. When you meet an old friend after a very long time, then there is very high possibility that you will feel like a stranger. You will feel awkward. You may nt even understand what to speak.. Yes, one can certainly feel rusty after long time separation. However, there is actually no need to feel rusty. We can take it as a fact of life and facts can not be solved. Only problems can be solved. Facts are to be understood, not solved.

This really happens with some of our friends. I also had a friend who I count as my best friend and sister during secondary school. But when we entered college- we go into different school and our connection become less everyday. Until we found out that we've already build a wall between us. I feel sad, but I have to accept- this is reality of life. Friends come and friends go.

Now with my two very best friends, there was actually a time where we had literally lost all contact with each other for over eight years. Now when I was able to find them again, I was shocked to see that when we were together we were able to talk and pass time like absolutely no time had passed since the last time that we'd had the opportunity to talk. To me, I really think that this feeling of no absence in each other's life is actually one of the biggest signs of a true friendship.

Unfortuantely, this tends to happen as we grow up. I have gone through this so many times now. Most of my childhood friends are out of my life. I think you and your friend have just grown apart. That doesnt mean you dont still care about eachother, but your lives are going in different directions. Once you get into college you meet new people and it is an exciting time to learn about yourself and get to know others. Plus, being in relationships can definitely make it hard to divide your time. But try to remember not to exclude your friends just because you have a boyfriend. Just know this is normal and, if you are true friends, you will be there for eachother no matter how far apart you are.

Perhaps you should try to arrange to get together with her. Sometimes life can just get the best of us and we have so much that we need to get done. I hope that you and your friend will be able to make time for one another.