Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor

United States
April 15, 2013 10:25am CST
Saw the new movie by Tyler Perry called Temptation: Confessions of The Marriage Counselor starring Jurnee Smollet-Bell and Lance Gross and it was really good. The story was about a marriage counselor who was relaying her story of infidelity to a woman on the cusp of cheating on her husband. The story was both powerful and riveting with a lot of twists and turns. I really like how the story never really blamed either party for the demise of the marriage. It showed how when stuck in a boring or mundane relationship how easy it is to venture outside of the marriage to find what you're missing. The husband seemed totally oblivious to his wifes unhappiness which lead to her cheating and the ruin of the marriage. As I watched the movie I thought about how one simple action can cause a chain reaction as in the movie. Unfortunately people live that story line every single day. Thinking the grass is always is greener but its not. One thing I've noticed is that when you're in a committed relationship temptation is all around you. It's a daily struggle to remain steadfast and committed. Exe's come out of the woodwork and people who wouldn't give you the time of day when you were single are asking for your number. Maybe because you're happy now and they want some of that happiness. I try to remember, on a daily basis, all the things that are special in my relationship and ask myself is it worth giving up. Even when it gets a little boring or we both get busy it's still worth fighting for. Like I always say Temptation is a beast.
1 response
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
Temptation makes a relationship spicy and trilling, but most of us fall on the trap of temptation if we make it a big deal, you can entertain temptation but you must know the consequences of it. Sometimes relationship must be tested on how strong it is, love is un-measurable we knew it, but how strong is your love to someone? you were not able to knew it unless you've been tested. You can love many persons as you like but there is only one person who has your strong love. Anyway i can say all this because i am a practical person when it comes to love, been to many kind of relationship and i've experienced being fooled and the fool. And all the things that knew is love is "game" and you if you are weak you can't win so we need to fight, though sometimes we ask our self if the person is worth fighting for, but you can't answer that question unless you tried.
• United States
19 Apr 13
Thanks for your response. I really like your take on love. It is a game and you gotta play to win. Though it will fool you a time or too you gotta know when someone really truly does love you. When you have someone who really loves you it's definitely worth fighting for. Just because someone fancier comes along doesn't mean you need it cause like they say, "All that glitters is not gold."