I'm a school bus driver and have a crush on a students parent.
By Sunshine84
@Sunshine84 (1)
United States
April 15, 2013 1:01pm CST
I'm 22 years old and a bus driver. The parent I have a crush on is a divorced male in his forties.
I know he is slightly older than I but I feel as if he is into me. He complimented my hair one day and another day told me he would miss me when I'm no longer driving the bus.
How can I tell him I'm into him, without coming off to strong.
His child and I have a great relationship.
4 responses
@jennifer611 (2514)
• United States
15 Apr 13
since your both adults I would say age is just a number. I am in my 30's and my husband in his 50's, we have been together for 10 yrs. so sometimes those relationships do work! ;) I would say to let him know your into him, just smile! lol. give him a nice smile. if you can get together enough courage let him know your going to have a cookout on the weekend or something fun and kid friendly where his child would be welcome to come and you'd love to have him join you. the worst he can do is say no. good luck :)
@maxfashioned (188)
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15 Apr 13
No way! Don't get the kid envolved. He is divorced, he has so many more life experiences than you do. Do not fall for this guy, you have so much more fun to have while you are young. Hit it and quit it.
@jennifer611 (2514)
• United States
15 Apr 13
hit it and quit it.. doesn't sound very classy or lady like to me. just because someone has a child doesn't make them not worth your time. he could be a jerk and just out to get a young girl but then again he could be a really sweet guy. ya never know.
@maxfashioned (188)
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15 Apr 13
He is a divorced 40 year old man. What do you think he is looking for. My concern is not for him but for her. She is young and I can remember how fast a young girl can fall in love. I would hate for her to fall for this guy and he not want to be serious. I could also see her falling for him, getting married, then resenting him for marrying her at such a young, naive age. She has plenty of time to find a life partner, no need to rush. I didn't coin the phrase hit it and quit it but maybe you would be more comfortable with me saying it if I were a man.?
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
16 Apr 13
Hello sunshine. You may start to have friendship first for the relationship to move on. This way you may see whether it fits you to develop a relationship. Good luck.
@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
15 Apr 13
Just go up to him and tell him,it shows him that your confident.The worst thing that could happen is that he'd tell he just wants to be friends.Nothing wrong with that..
@maxfashioned (188)
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15 Apr 13
It kind of sounds creepy to me. However, of course he is into you! Try to run into him somewhere other than the bus stop. He is old and you are young, that means you are his type. Just don't get serious with him. Wham-bam-thank you man!
