We can't have a cat!!!

It has a collar on so it belongs to somebody. I would love to have it around bur it would just cause us problems in the family. I don't like getting yelled at. I try to stay under the radar.

I guess you do! I don't think I could go without having a cat in my life. I do understand your plight though but it would be really hard. I sent some pictures of Sassy to K on FB and asked her to show them to you. That's where she eats every night. She's still as sweet as she's always been.

Yes she showed me them. Thank you ever so much. They brought tears to my eyes. I can still feel her on my chest patting my chin! I got to stop! It makes me cry. But I have wonderful memories of her.

I don't think it should have been outside, period. It cried just like a baby and I wanted to hold it so bad. K did feed it and water it and held it and petted it for awhile. It wanted to come in but that CAN'T happen. I miss having a cat to love. I miss letting a cat sleep with me on my chest. I miss having a cat sit up in the Christmas tree and people watch. I miss Sassy so much still.

That is possible - I hope so. Maybe it will come and say hello to you one of these days..

Our animal shelter is a kill shelter I think. On Wednesdays the are not open. That is the day they kill the animals whose time has run out. It's sad. The cats not here now. The neighbor is home so daughter thinks it went home.

Pets are like kids and it is up to us to watch over them and keep them safe. I have my grandson living with me. He is two and I have just learned that I have to keep my doors locked as he has figured how to open them and run out. He has done it twice when I've been right here and luckily grabbed him before he could get to the parking lot. I'd never forgive myself if something happened to him on my watch. Pets are no different.

I doubt that someone would put a collar on it and then drop it off at your house. I think that if you can't find the owner soon you should take it to the humane society because you don't want to get too attached to it. She sounds very cute. Hope you find the owner soon.

I don't think it should be outside alone. Daughter thinks she knows who owns it but not sure. What if someone put a collar on it just to drop it off here? That's my thought. She is a fray tiger.

Wow - that's a pretty severe allergy!! We give my daughter Claritin if we go to anyone's house that has cats. I used to be against giving her any kind of medicine - but her reaction to cats is just horrible and I don't want her to have to put up with that during her visit. Itch itch itch to the point where she bleeds. I just hate the my mother in law doesn't do much knowing that my daughter is very allergic to cats, not even to vacuum up the place (which wouldn't help anyway) .. . and she doesn't understand why we don't come around so often.

I can understand that. My son in law is very allergic. He even throws up from all the secretions that builds up in this throat. He swells up some on the inside but not enough to cut off his breathing. Antihistamines don't help much at all. Thus he does not want to breathe in or get any if those allergens into his body. If Ge didn't get so sick he wouldn't react so badly about them. He reacts to cats almost as badly as I react to wasps. I have to have epi pens on hand and I have to call 911 when I'm stung. He's not that bad but he's bad enough.

I know. I agree with you. The one lady next door ..a female couple live next door across the street. One of the women is home now and that cat must have gone home.

Hi Pye, Yes, you were instrumental in getting Sassy on her way to her forever mom, CatsandDogs. She sent my daughter some pictures. saw her partner talking on her cell phone on her porch. I wanted to talk to her but didn't want to intrude on her phone call. I came inside and got busy making supper and didn't go back out. I do intend to ask if this is their kitten. The kitten looks well fed, but it cried so much. Then the kitties was gone and my daughter said Melissa's partner came home. Maybe the cat was scared to be alone. Melissa has a chihuahua with the heart of a lion. And a little Shitizu (not sure if I spelled that right). The chihuahua gets loose and just comes over. He's not friendly. He comes in our yard and barks at me. He's funny. But oh I was so scared one day when a car was coming down our street. I couldn't pick him up for safety because he dodged me and gave me threatening barks for my efforts. Melissa saw us then and came over and got him. I wish she wouldn't just let him out. I'm not sure if she owns the cat. But I think she does. I think the cat went home when the partner came home. But I didn't see it then. I will try to watch out when one of their cars is in the driveway to see if the kitty is theirs. I'm with you on that. That kitty should not have been loose. She/he is in danger of getting hit or kidnapped for terrible reasons. It really hurts me that I can't have a cat. They are my heart. When I lived on my own in my pastor's dad's basement apartment I was a cat lady. The cats seemed to talk to each other. These feral cats learned to trust me. I fed them and 3 of them came in and out. One of the cats had premature babies and I tried to give CPR but they didn't survive. The mom lived. They all came and went since they were part wild. But I had the ones inside fixed. I was so happy back then. I'm content now ...but not truly happy without a cat.

My daughter cut up a hot dog really small. He/she didn't eat much. It breaks my heart. It's gone now I think. It ate a little. It went on the back porch but now it's gone.