Can you really curse or hate your past relationships???

Hi, yes you can curse or hate your past relationships BUT should you? Every relationship is a whirlwind experience with highs and lows. Moments that made you so incredibly happy and others you rather not remember. But what's important to remember or may look at is that you learned something about yourself out of that relationship. You leave heart broken yes but you also walk away with a little more knowledge than you came in with. Never regret what didnt work, because it always serves a purpose in your life.

i didn't part well with my two EXs but we eventually became friends again after many years. i don't believe in holding grudges against people, especially if i was happy with them for a period in my life. usually these heartaches and bitterness fade with time. the bad memories become overshadowed by the good ones so it becomes easier to forgive.

I have only had two relationships in my lifetime. One that lasted eleven years and though he cheated on me left and right I have no regrets. I ended up with two beautiful girls due to that relationship. So I can remember a bunch of special moments and not dwell on the heartbreak of it all. It was what it was and life goes on to bigger and better relationships.

it depends on person to person and the situations they have faced. me personally dont regert my past relationship. the reason i was with him is coz we had good moments which are worth cherishing. the resaon we fell apart is for better off. so no regrets... rather it makes me laugh at times

yes...i agree we do have that special place...but the most important thing here is to have in your mind that the special place which we have for our past should never hamper our future happinesss.....it all depends on the question of, till what extent and on what cost do we keep our past with us.