Cyber Troll is everywhere
By silverfox09
@silverfox09 (4708)
United States
April 16, 2013 3:28pm CST
I think people that come on the internet to harass members have personal problem so they easily irritated and sometimes jealous of others .
These people are popular in youtube but even on mylot you come across these type of miserable human, who want to tell you what discussion to start and how to answer . If its not violating mylot terms , why are you mad?
Why do some people feel they can tell you what to do ? You dont even know some of them , why do people allow others to push their button by even acknowledging them ? Whenever you come across these people ignore them because you are free to have an opinion and express yourself even if its not fit in with the majority .
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6 responses
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
19 Apr 13
Yes, you do find these type of people everywhere. And yes like you said, unfortunately here in myLot as well. I have had people respond back in a discussion of mine, and be like what??? How can they say that, especially when they are not the ones walking in my shoes.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
24 Apr 13
Thats what I dont get , I wonder if they think before answering . Every situation is unique and some fails to realize that you can be talking from a different place . Not all of us will have the majority way of thinking .
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
17 Apr 13
Well, respecting the guidelines of MyLot, the site offers the ability to write on various topics.
Fortunately for me, I never came across arrogant person suggest me coldly as I should have for composing discussions and comments!
Mutual exchanges of opinions, requests and offers of help or simply write threads talking about maybe a particular episode, and so on.
Sometimes we all make mistakes in writing about MyLot at this point threads are eventually removed by the algorithm of the site.
As I said I have a group of friends, especially overseas (I'm Italian) which always commenting on my threads. With them, never any trouble!
I hope it continues for me always..
However, I am sorry for you, that are unbeaten in strange people.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Apr 13
You are fortunate , I have come across people trying to dictate to me and also try bully other members . I then think maybe its misunderstanding because it could be translation problem .
I know group of people here that I communicate with and never have any problem with also . I just ignore those people though and they normally go away .
Thanks for responding
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Apr 13
Hi silverfox
No matter how hard I try, there have been times when I have felt hurt. I felt that despite these rules, regulations, anyone can take them on a drive and post whatever they feel and I have to read them just because it is either on my discussion or on my box. I have to feel pleasant when I am here... I have always been here to feel happy and feel relaxed, not to get pi$$ed off by some nonsense remarks and comments. It is sad that such people have started arriving to MyLot too though I think they will always be numbered and be around for just a limited time.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Apr 13
Yes we may brush it off but sometimes their are people that go out of their way to upset you . I agree most the ones I notice fade away as they come .
If I come up on a discussion I dont like , I rather leave , I sometimes wonder if they dont know they have that option .
Thanks for you respond Sid , have a good day
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Apr 13
Sadly people are everywhere like this. In real life we have bullies and people who are just miserable to be around and online there are people like this also. I agree with you, it is best to simply ignore them. If we ignore them they will stop doing it because their not getting a reaction from us...
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Apr 13
OMG when you have to deal with these people in real life its the worse lol ... When they are online its good to ignore them because they dont know you they just looking for a reaction as you said .
Have a nice day
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
17 Apr 13
Hi friend, here we all have our rights to give our thoughts and opinion. Mylot is a great place to discuss about various things. We all know about what to discuss as well as reply, no one have the rights to command us. If some persons are commanding you in this sort and hurting your feelings, you can report them to the admin
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Apr 13
Its not that extreme lol .. I just wonder why people go off topic to make rude comments sometimes . I just ignore those people because I know they will go away .
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
16 Apr 13
Well, there will always be people like that, by the very same way that there will always be good and nice people that makes you feel like you already know them even though you just met them. I believe that they should be ignored, because if we will give them notice, which is exactly what they want, we are just fueling their malicious attempts to create trouble. I also personally think that they have such very low self esteem that they need to hide behind user names and even make someone feel bad about themselves just so they can feel better. Isn't that pathetic?
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Apr 13
I agree its pathetic and your right there will always be good people and that's what make you keep coming back sometimes . The good is more than the bad , but that one bad try to upset everyone .
These people do irritate me but normally just ignore them since I dont know them and I know they will feel small when I ignore them .