Hardwork gone...my spirit went on with it.

Davao, Philippines
April 16, 2013 4:20pm CST
Have you ever been in a situation when your most heartfelt work had gone up in smoke? Or you're already in square 99 of a gameboard and then you have to go back to square one all over again? Tell you what, I have just experienced it. It almost literally went that way for me. And now it seemed like my soul is being sucked down in a pit. I don't want to feel depressed for long. I don't like it. The more I feel sad, the more I feel weak. And so you had no choice but to read all I put here as I will recount every good thing I have before I move on: like, thankfully, I'm a cautious person and had saved an old backup. So I would just have to start on square 55 instead return to square 1. I can't imagine what I would be doing now if I had to literally start with a blank page. I am in a middle of a novel project of mine that I determined to complete before the end of this month. I drank a lot of coffee on this that had been going round and round in my head for more than ten years and had just started in the middle of February this year. I had thought to input digitally all my longhand first draft, editing it at the same time as I go along. And then, I saved every file I had on my flash drive. Right now, I feel so stupid in doing that. All along I knew beforehand flash drives are never a good memory storage for important files. But, at least I was cautious enough--and obsessive enough--to save my files on certain storage mediums like the local hard drive and the internet, having learned from a past experience when I was writing long sets of codes or animating. How did I lose my files? Simple, my flash drive had decided to expire just now. So I had backup. But why did I cry and sounded like a cow outside just now? The answer is simple enough, the one part of my story that disappeared was the part when I had experienced the most hideous of headaches, a series of author's block and almost went sick with it--well I got sick anyway. I was sniffling with a common cold while I was typing and editing my longhand draft. In other words, it's the part of the story that I had the least memory of typing--and it was two chapters long. If you will be in my position, what would you do? If you had been in my position, what had you done to overcome it? In my case, I decided to move forward. Leave off what had disappeared for now and continue until I finish typing my drafts to the computer. And when I finish or feel better about it, I will go back there. As for the notes I have made along the way, I trust in my brain to remember all of it.
5 responses
@allknowing (137822)
• India
17 Apr 13
I would think it to be a bad dream. Give a break and start all over again, putting together whatever can be retrieved. May be the new effort could turn out to be far better?
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@allknowing (137822)
• India
17 Apr 13
A mistake makes us wiser in our ways but you had to make it a second time to be wise! Take it in your stride Rose, and put all your effort into it once again and I am sure you will emerge a success.
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
17 Apr 13
I like your positive attitude. Keep it up. That's bad thing happened with you. But you will succeed for sure.
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• Davao, Philippines
17 Apr 13
I have long ago realize that life likes to push us around. It is up to us to learn from it and move on, or be a dunce, or give in. I would like to think I have already experienced something worse than what had just happened to me. But when you have to cry, you really have to cry. But don't take too long. Because of a certain person, I have learned that whining about one's problems for longer than necessary never really fixes the problems. Because they are problems, it is their job to make your life miserable. It's only up to you whether you allow it to overpower you or not. I also just learned that moving forward is better than not trying again. I know I would have felt worse had I not worked with that lost project again just now.
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
16 Apr 13
That's very frustrating, but you can't give up all your hard work. You must finish what you've started. Take a rest for now, so that when you will type again your brain can function much better. You should always have a back up. Try to have at least two copies in two different storage. I hope you can finish it with the right satisfaction in your mind. Don't quit, If you need to take a rest then rest but don't you dare quit. :) God bless.
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• Davao, Philippines
17 Apr 13
Hi, vycess! With the way I am, when I lose something, I tend to not rest at all until I can work things out. When I do that, that's when I can rest. Last time I've checked my documents had at least 46,000+ words in my file. I'm planning to reach 48,000 before this day ends--ignoring the lost chapter for now. From now on I'm gonna try the suggestion given in the first box. I'm gonna send myself a saved file through e-mail every time I end my work for the day. If I had to, I'll send it all my e-mails--which was dozens of them. No, I won't dare quit. I can't quit or else I'm going to lose my mind. I write to keep my sanity if others writing is a hobby. Right now, that one thing that keeps me going is the thought everything would end up better than I did before. With that faith and hope, I dare not stop.
• Philippines
17 Apr 13
that is sooooooooooo stressful sinfulrose. i have similar incidents but different situation, its best to buy back up hard drive though :)
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• Davao, Philippines
17 Apr 13
I agree, mama. It is indeed best to buy a portable hard drive for me to save all my files. But as of now, I have not yet the funds to buy the 3TB that I prefer. And since I don't have a hard drive yet,for now, I'm going to have to stick with free storage sites like dropbox.com. Should I buy a smaller memory capacity of a hard drive, I'd rather buy another flash drive instead that has a bigger memory storage for a much cheaper price. As papa would say, "it's for only temporary anyway."
• Philippines
16 Apr 13
Your POSITIVE ATTITUDE is your best back-up! It really happens! Files crash, virus attack, pages suddenly don't respond, pc hangs, and the likes of an unfortunate momentum loss! depression is just an ounce that we normally give-in to ... just to remind ourselves that we are vulnerable; but we should be able to overcome it right away. 'just like stumbling on your knees and standing up so quickly because we'll really look dim-witted if we would just wait 'till somebody picks us up. Emailing your file to yourself part by part would lessen saving files in flash drive which you couldn't tell when would crash. Congratulations anyway, your decision of MOVING ON is a just great that would make you finish your novel very soon! #sunset