Is it better to have a girlfriend or not?
By rajendra1903
@rajendra1903 (38)
India
April 16, 2013 9:16pm CST
I just want to know whether it is better to have a girlfriend or not because i need a girl, who can understand my feelings and sorrows and i am not going to leave her hand till the end of my life if once i start loving her but so many people say that if we start loving someone we get far away from our parents.
6 responses
@ajay3949 (66)
• India
17 Apr 13
Hello,
Depends on your personality as well as your commitment to goals, Typically when i dated in college i spent more time studying. alongside my girlfriend. otherwise I found myself hanging out with my guys wasting time.
but after my studying i am always spending time with my girlfriend.
i am not away from our parents.
so its depend on you.
@jonastabuena (2307)
• Philippines
17 Apr 13
If you get married, you will live separate from your parents, but if your going to have a girlfriend boyfriend relationship you don't have be far away from your parents. You can have a girlfriend if you want, but you must consider and think deeply if this is the right time for you to have a girlfriend, and if you believe that you can handle a relationship now, why don't you take a try to have a relationship with a girl.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
17 Apr 13
hi rajendra, how old are you now? I think that having a partner in life is an important thing. When we have our own partner, we don't feel that we are alone. We do not feel the solitude. Is it because we know that there is that person who loves us, cares for us, and willing to be there for us. Finding the one that you love and will love you in return is such a gift. Not so many succeed in that area. Some people believe that people originally born with a destined partner already. Do you believe in that? As for me, many says that I am in a marrying age already. Having a boyfriend or not having one is not a big deal for me. I enjoy my life with my family, friends, students and colleagues. I just hope that one day, the right one will come along.Just enjoy the moment and who knows, one time will come that the right one will be seating there already beside you. Once you find her, don't let her go as what you stated in your post. Treasure her for true love is very hard to find.
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
17 Apr 13
Well it really depends on you, being in to a relationship takes a lot of effort of both of you. Well, why not try to have a company of someone first, go out with her, have fun. Then if both of you understand each other well and have some mutual feelings for both of each other then go into a relationship. The imporatant thing is to always have fun with each other. Have a nice day my friend.