Have you ever had someone be rude to you on mylot?
By Brooke
@o2bnocn (2992)
United States
April 17, 2013 1:30pm CST
I was just thinking that the majority of people here are very friendly. I don't think I have ever had a person be rude to me in a discussion. I have had people disagree with me but not be rude. Disagreeing with me is different than being rude. I don't know if My lot would even allow a user to rude to another person. What are your thoughts?
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12 responses
@namiya (1718)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
There was one when I was still new here. I responded to her topic and it seems that we had a difference of views and I was offended when she commented back for she pointed out that I am responding without fully understanding the topic. That was however one of the deleted discussions that I have responded.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
17 Apr 13
I had a rude Aussie old punk on my back some of the time during mylotting, because i disagree with his discussion calling USA as a country that is practicing gender discrimination on women /girl in the political and economy arena, it infuriated him after i forwarded the facts in my argument for my disagreement on his claims, so the name calling began after that, he constantly called me a sexist, moron; racist, stupid etc... whenever opportunity arise. It happened couple of months ago, that is probably the only one i known of in my several years of myzzzzzlotting here. Overall, many mylotters are friendly and reasonable people, the Rudish member only make up of a few here, may around 1%-2% of the total members.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
18 Apr 13
Don't need to apologize, it is not your fault. There is always few out there want to pick fight instead of discuss whenever you don't agree with them, it is quite natural during Mylotting, once a while a troll will go around trying to provoke other and acted belligerently, i will just overlook it and forgave him. I don't like to be rude to anyone even though i don't agree with him/her, it is no need to be rude and provocative upon differ in opinion, i prefer to be civilized and react in a calm manner during mylotting, that is just the way i am. it is always wrong to be rude to another member here.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
18 Apr 13
I have come across rude comments but not often its very rare on mylot . Disagree with you is not being rude its a open room for discussion and that is what a discussion is all about, different argument .
Whenever I come across rude people I normally ignore them and mylot would also remove the comment .
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Apr 13
I never experience this thing even at the start. I make sure to read the guidelines when I've learned that we can earn from participating in the discussion. I don't ask unnecessary questions. I make sure that if I have question, I find the answer by reading the FAQs or other discussions using the search engine.
Most of the time, other members mistakenly referred an answer to a query as mean because they got reply from old members in an offensive manner. I came across several discussions like this.
Have a nice day!
@Amemi432 (54)
• India
18 Apr 13
I am still very new here and only participated in a few discussions. But I read many discussions(old and new). So far I didn't find anyone being rude to another in mylot. I know there might be someone out there, but the number of rude people here in mylot seems way lower than any other social website I visited so far. And many senior mylotters are always ready to help newbies in understanding mylot better. This friendly atmosphere makes it easier to post here. I am very happy that I found mylot.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
17 Apr 13
Not really rude, but a bit mean. Just because I have a different opinion than him/her. I was given a negative marking and that made my level dropped. At first it really irritated me, but then I thought, he/she is just one of the many nice mylotters in here and I will not let one rotten person ruin the entire experience for me.
@o2bnocn (2992)
• United States
18 Apr 13
That is a good attitude. You shouldn't let that one little instance ruin your experience. I think that is a little mean to give you a negative rating. I can understand if he disagreed. We all have disagreements. No one is going to agree with everyone else on everything, but that is no reason to start any type of trouble. Thanks for your response.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
18 Apr 13
Well if everyone here was all polite and goody , goody.. the site would be no fun at all.
@bluebutterfly20 (462)
• United States
17 Apr 13
When I first got here, there was one person who was being rude to me. I didnt reply to his/her post, I reported him/her instead lol. Then her/his post got deleted after that ^_^