Date in the dark

I also think that there is a difference between people who meet for the first time and people who are already a couple. When we meet someone for the first time eye contact is usually a part of the meeting and we are able to see the body language as well. If you meet in the dark you are only able to hear the person's voice so that would be a very different experience. I don't think that would be comfortable in that situation if I met a stranger, but could be an interesting experiment to try that kind of date with my husband.

I think that I could do it if I already knew the other person, but I don't like the idea of meeting a stranger that way. That would make me nervous I think, because I wouldn't know if I could trust him or not.

I also wish you a nice weekend It looks like we are going a nice and sunny weekend in my country. I am happy that the snow has disappeared.

Yes, If I knew them I could. But not on a first date. Have a great weekend there.

That is also one of the things that I thought about when I heard about that kind of date - it would be easy to spill food on the clothes, and you would have to be careful with the glass. I have never tried it, but I imagine that it would be a challenge to eat a meal in the dark. In dark room eye contact would be impossible and we would also be unable to see the body language. We would have to base our impression on the voice and the tone of the voice. Here on Mylot I once read about a tv show where 3 men and 3 women have to meet in the dark. They are unable to see eachother so they have to base their impression on other things like the tone of the voice. I don't think that I would participate in that kind of tv show, but I am sure that it was a different experience for the people who participated. Yes, in a dark restaurant we might get our wallet stolen. I would worry about that if I had to eat in a dark restaurant I think that I put the cash that I needed for the meal in my pocket and leave my bag at home. I would also feel uncomfortable eaintg food that I couldn't see.

The girl from the article that I read tested the idea of a date in the dark, and the lack of eye contact was one of the things that she didn't like about that kind of date. She didn't find it very romantic. I have never tried it, but it must be an unusual experience.

The wowan from the article I read said that she thought that a date in the dark would be a good idea for the first date, but I don't think that I would like to try it on the first date. I think that it would be scary to meet someone that way for the first time and I would feel very vulnerable because I wouldn't know the other person's intentions and I wouldn't know if I could trust the person or not. I prefer an ordinary date where we are able to see eachother if we have never met before. When we already know eachother I wouldn't be afraid to experiment with other kinds of dates.

Yes, there are lots of other ways to spend time in the dark I think that it would be a different experiece to eat dinner in the dark. I have never tried it, but I think it would be hard to find the food in the dark. It sounds like some of the those restaurants where you eat your dinner in a dark room. I don't know anyone who has visited one of those restaurants. It could be interesting to hear about their experience in the restaurant and their date if they chose to arrange a date in the dark...

Well, dating in the dark would give those not so good looking dates a chance. I think the date encourages people to not be swayed by physical looks in choosing partners. Haha, when dating in the dark, one should not eat fish! People are gonna choke on the bones! That's dangerous! Also, the date can be a pervert who'd take advantage of you in the dark. It's best to be prepared when going for those kind of dates and having back up if things go bad is a good move. I would only do it with someone I know or my boyfriend or my husband. It takes trust to pull off something like this without feeling uncomfortable.

yeah, I agree. But I wonder why people who joined dating in the dark suddenly turn down their partners after seeing each other's looks...

I also think that there is a difference between a situation where you date someone you have just met and a situation where you already know and trust eachother. I don't think that I would feel comfortable if I had to meet a stranger for the first time in a totally dark room It would be hard to know if I could trust the person or not. I don't want to meet a man who stabs me with a knife or something like that and I don't think that I would be able to relax in that situation. The girl in the article I read actually said that she thought that it be a idea for a first date, but it would quite risky.

I also think that trust is very important in that situation. If the person is a complete stranger we don't know for sure if we can trust the person or not, and the idea of a psycho with a knife also crossed my mind when I read about that kind of date. Of course the guy could be completely harmless, but I would still feel uncomfortable and vulnerable in the dark if my date was a stranger. If we are already a couple the situation would be different and I think that it could be ano interesting experiment. I don'r know if my husband would like the idea, but if he is willing to give it a try it could be fun to try it one day.

I have never tried it bur I imagine that ir would be a challenge to eat in the dark. When you can't see what you are eating some of the food might end on the floor or on your clothes so it would probably be a good idea to wear old clothes and cover the floor before you start

Yes, it would definately be a new experience. When most people go on a date they can see eachother. Yhey are able to maintain eye contact and they see the other person's body language. When you date someone in a dark room you don't have the chance to look at their body language and you have to focus on their voice and thar makes the situation unusual. I think that it could be an interesting experiment, but I would only do if I already knew the person. I don't like the idea of meeting a stranger in the dark, I think that would be to risky because I wouldn't know if I could trust the person or not and I would find it hard to relax in that situation.