anniversary

@biach17 (196)
Philippines
April 19, 2013 12:47am CST
We'll my husband and I are together for 9 years. I surprised him with the help of his friends. i guess he was surprised. but i never heard him say thank you. never greet me. so im wondering maybe he was shy coz he did not give me anything in return. but i dont expect anything coz we are currently renovating our house so it is understandable the we have financial issues. i just saved a little that is why i bought something to surprise him. but it turns out it is not a h appy anniversary coz we fought for some misunderstanding. i frowned because early in the morning because he never greeted me. :( am i childish or what?
5 responses
alicia812
@alicia812 (646)
• Australia
19 Apr 13
Oh come on biach17. Being with a man and married with him for sometime you should already know by now that men, generally, are not much into remember- ring occasions. And the thing is, we, women, are so sensitive about it. Just simply lay out your plans for the day and be happy by celebrating it together. Anyway, you have already initiated the celebration. Happy anniversary!
biach17
@biach17 (196)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
Thank you alicia812. yeah generally men are like that but not my hubby....this is first.....
Kmz059
@Kmz059 (652)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
He didn't greet you? aw. that is really sad. No your not childish your just being true with your feelings. Ask him and have a heart to heart talk.
beamer88
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
I think it's quite normal to feel a bit sad and djsappointed if your husband didn't greet you on your anniversary. After all, each year of our marriage is like a milestone that we should cherish. Personally, i feel that there isn't any justifiable reason not to even greet your spouse on your anniversary.
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Apr 13
So why don't you talk to him about it. He has to know how you feel, because after all it's you who made the efforts for the preparation. That way, next time he knows what to do already, to at least reciprocate the nice gesture.
Firefly
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Apr 13
No it's not a childish reaction!..He should seen your effort of surprising him for your anniversary.. and I believe that if you are in love with someone and that someone surprised you like that, you will surely happy and thankful, because that's one way of showing love to your partner.. I'm sad of what happened to you..