Would you quit?

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About a year ago I had a babysitting job. My cousin needed a babysitter, and I was looking for some income. I was going to start babysitting for her. I agreed to get paid $100 a week no matter what. Which meant if she came and picked the baby up early I would still get paid $100. If she left the baby longer than she was working, I would still get paid $100. I didn't think this was going to be an issue, especially with her being a family member. In all honesty, I don't think I should have agreed to the $100 a week but I needed the income. I started babysitting and she slowly started to give me demands. Some of the demands were to give the child juice and healthy foods. I understand these demands because she is looking out for the child and wanting her to eat and drink healthy foods and drinks. It was almost everyday that she made a comment to give her juice even though I gave her juice. The only time I gave her water was when I ran out of juice or didn't have any. The other demands were to take the child outside, get her into a routine, teach her the alphabet and numbers. Some other demands were that she wanted me to discipline when she was misbehaving. I did my best to get a routine and stay within the routine. I also did my best to take her outside, and teach her the alphabet and numbers. I heard these demands a lot, and I mean a lot. Almost everyday she would tell me again and again. Other times it would be new demands or requests. I always said OK and did my best to follow her request. I know that she was the "boss" of me and I had to do what she said. One time she called me and told me that the child was misbehaving the night before. She told me that we really needed to work on that. I did not have the baby the night before, and she got mad at me even though I was not babysitting. I understand that I needed to do my part to discipline when she misbehaved, but how am I suppose to discipline when I am not even around the child? There was another issue that she got after me because she said the child was not learning anything. The baby was just still young...either 2 or 3. I showed her videos and wrote the alphabet and letters down occasionally. It was hard to teach her at such a young age. Maybe I should have put more effort into this part. When I started to take her outside then the mother complained that she was getting bitten up by bug bites. I understand that scenario, but I didn't know what to do in this case. She wanted me to take her outside but then complained about the bug bites. This became a real issue real fast. Then she started to tell me what foods to buy and feed her. She even told me to take my paycheck and buy her foods and snacks when I get paid. She expected me to take the $100 a week that I received and buy her child foods and snacks that she was requesting. The hours started to get longer and longer. There were many 10-12 hour days that I kept the baby, which I never received any more money from. The mother always changed her schedule on me, barely ever told me my hours, and would call and wake me up early in the morning at 4 am to tell me that she was going to be a couple of hours late and then her entire schedule would change. There were even times that she told me I had off and then the next day changed the schedule and told me I had to keep her because they called her into work. She works retail by the way. So here I was babysitting for nearly 40-60 hours a week for only $100 a week, expected to take the child outside, buy and put bug spray on her, teach her the alphabet and numbers, buy and cook her healthy food, keep a schedule even though her mothers schedule changed all the time. At one point I did the math and some weeks I was only earning $2.50 an hour. What would you have done?