if you see a 13 yr old girl kissing an guy in his 30s, would you tell the dad?

A thirteen year old is still a child. What this man is doing is illegal. Tell the father what you saw. By doing so you may be saving this girl from much more than just kissing. If you had a thirteen year old daughter wouldn't you want someone to tell you?

Talk to the dad........Why did you not call the police to report what you say...........

I find it better to stay out of other people's lives and mind my own business most of the time. I seem to have fewer problems in life when I do this. While I don't agree with the actions taking place here, I would probably keep my mouth shut and not say anything. The only way I would say anything is if I knew I could trust the parents not to tell anyone that it was me who told them about what was going on. I would want my name left out of it completely...

I think the parents should know. The girl is a minor and if the guy is a tutor then he is breaking their trust. It is not right to just let things pass because what happened is something parents do not want to happen to their children. Yes, please tell the parents of the girl.

My thought patterns are differend that the majority, differend than the norm. But id say do not get involved. I can not bring you nothing but trouble, to get involved. UNLESS it was not consentual. In that case yes get involved. I thought about it for a second... Personally i draw the line at 12years old, if she was younger, id tell you to do get involved. And the only reason my line is so low, is because of how i see society. It's like, i dont make the rules. So stay out of it. Good fences make good neighbours... :)

No,that age difference is illegal. I would tell. No questions asked.

She's a minor. He's an adult. It's illegal. Yes, you should tell the parents... and probably the police, too.

Well the way I see it if this was my thirteen old daughter and someone saw this type of behavior happening behind my back I would want them to tell me. I'm sure the parents are not aware of this. If she is only thirteen years old I can't imagine leaving her with a tutor or anyone for that matter especially a male figure. I would have to tell the parents and right away. He is no good if he is kissing this child and he is in his 30's.

I think it is better you talk to the girl first and if she doesn't listen tell her that you're going to inform her parents about it. Well, it maybe sounds scaring the little girl- but at least you could have saved her from worst scenario.

What kind of parents are they leaving their young girl alone with a strange man? Yes you should tell them what he is tutoring their daughter when they are not home.

wow this is a really hard thing to decide what is the right thing to do it. i saw in a few other posts where you mentioned talking to the daughter since you take her to school everyday. i know you say your not that close but i think that is the best choice is for you to talk to her first. maybe you can get the full story before confronting her dad. may i ask why your husband is forbiding you to get involved?

Hi ! I will really tell the dad about it ! The world is so dirty nowadays , we need to be cautious , we need to anticipate things and we need to prevent horrible things to happen. We really don't know what is going on the mind of that 30 when being kissed by 13 years . This gesture must be stop because temptation is around and it is better to be safe always though might be the man have pure intentions of his heart , that the kissing was nothing but a goodbye kiss. It maybe a kiss out of respect but safe first of the child must be adopted.

Omigosh! There really is a thing such as corruption of minors! I'd definitely tell her parents to look after the welfare of their daughter. This is a serious and sensitive matter so I guess you have to find a way to convey your main reason why you have to tell her parents what your husband witnessed in a way that won't cause alarm. This better be tackled privately so if they don't believe you, they can opt to discover it for themselves. And this tutor or whoever he is has no business of exploiting the young innocent age of this child and he has no business being in his profession. Parents should really be vigilant especially these days that no matter how educated we all are, there are still people who can't help to do things that are improper and ruins the welfare of others.

I think we're leaping to a negative conclusion here on no evidence aside from dagami's hearsay. I'm with hubby here; keep out unless you have stronger evidence of abuse.

Am 13 year old is a child in a woman's body. The parents need to be alerted about what you saw. Even if the man is a family member, the father needs to know what is happening while he is away. Ask your husband how he would feel if it were his daughter.

It depends greatly on the relationship of your husband to the land lord. And I mean very very very very important. If you don't have the relationship, if the land lord and your husband, do not have a close relationship, where there is mutual trust and respect... Then what could happen is the land lord could think he was spying on his girl. We both know that is not true, but that is what he might think. In this case, it's not your deal, stay out of it. Now on the other hand, if your husband does have a close relationship, and there is a level of trust, then I would extremely privately, one on one, no one else around, no one near by, no one to overhear, mention very cautiously that you don't know what the deal is, but as he was leaving, he saw this guys daughter kissing a man. It could be nothing, it could be something, you don't know, but there it is. But again, only if you have a level of trust. Only if there is a good relation there. Otherwise, I'd stay out of it.

It is not good thing. A tutor is equal to father. A 13 yr old girl is innocent and unmature. It is time for study and making carrier. You must be stop then from doing so.

if I knew them well and maybe discuss with them if she had a boy friend? then gradually bring it up in a nice way. perhaps he was younger than you thought. secrets are not good and can keep others from getting hurt. Perhaps even confront them when you see them . It is hard to say sometimes depends on the type of kind neighbors you have.

I can feel your concern towards the young girl, however, you are not in the position to meddle. If the young girl was a relative, then you have the right to inform her parents.

Personally, if I were in your positiion I would tell the dad of the girl about what my husband saw. The thing is the girl is only 13 years old and the guy is taking advantage her because of her young age. I think that I can not just keep whatever I know and just wait for the situation to worsen. It is for the future of this young girl.