How time flies
By tinayu
@tinayu (214)
China
April 20, 2013 8:03pm CST
hello my lotters, i am back.i was not online the whole day yesterday.cos my best friend was delivered of a baby yesterday morning.i visited her in the hospital as soon as i heard the news.her baby was pink,with thick black hair,looked very cute.
my friend is one month older than me.we are good friends since we were primary school students.our friendship has lasted for 20 years and more.
in the last year,she told me she was pregnant.i was very happy for her.after two months ,i was pregnant,too.we were immersed in the joys of being mothers and thought that our children would become best friends,too, like their mothers.
but good times did't last long.three months later,my embryo stopped the growth.i had to had an abortion.the doctor told me that i couldn't get pregnant until after six months.i was very very sad .
how time flies. now her baby was born already.i am also ready to get pregnant.maybe all things will be best.
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7 responses
@crazzydolphin (3636)
• United States
21 Apr 13
well first off i want to say congratulations to your friend on her baby...
i am so sorry to hear about your baby i know that it must have been hard on you and i cant even start to tell you how sorry i am for that.
i do want to say this tho. dont give up. if you get pregnant now that doesnt mean that yours and her kids cant still be close like you to because yes 1 will be about a year older than the other but there is nothing wrong with that.
i wish you luck if you decide that you are ready to try for another baby :)
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@crazzydolphin (3636)
• United States
21 Apr 13
yes i think no matter the age differance yours and her child would become the best of friends. that usually happens with kids when their parents are really close to someone. i wish you and your friend the best of luck and i really hope that everything goes ok with you if and when you decide to have another baby. just make sure to take care of yourself :)
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
Hi there Tinayu!
Congratulations to your friend and I am sorry about what happened with your first pregnancy. I am sure that you will be blessed with a new life when the right time comes. I felt the same way when my friends started having their own families. Most of them were older than me, but still. I just realized that we did not get to spend much time with each other anymore but I understand that once you have your own family, they become your priority. I understood it better when I had a family of my own.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
hi there tinayu,
well, at my end here, i often times say that lines too, how time flies. hence, time really runs so fast. its like i just celebrated my birthday last year and few more months, then its my birthday once again. wow, i will be gaining another year of wisdom again....
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
21 Apr 13
Sorry to hear that you lost your baby. I hope that in time when you are ready that you will be able to have another baby that you can cherish as well. And your child can still become very good friends with your friend's child.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
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27 Apr 13
Congratulations to your friend on the delivery of her baby. It is always nice being able to see a new life beginning and to be about to rejoice with others over it.
