Love need suspicion?

@bintang9 (196)
Indonesia
April 20, 2013 10:19pm CST
Suspicion, jealous, hate, longing,etc. Actually love does not require suspicion, but if there is possibility of betrayal of indicate to be affair, suspicion is necessary. What do you think?
7 responses
@Pegasus72 (1898)
27 Apr 13
I think doubt brings suspicion as well as other people actions that cause you to be suspicious.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
When we love someone, it is natural for us to be cautious and conscious about that person. Of course, we only want that person to love us back. But sometimes, we are threatened because some people may try to get our love's attention from us. It is normal to have a watchful eye, but we should also make sure that what we feel is really something that is happening and not just get crazy getting jealous over nothing.
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
21 Apr 13
Love? Well if there comes a point where there is an arousal of suspicion then there are already problems and perhaps it just isn't meant to be. Relationships, especially love relationships, say between a man and a woman are very intricate things. I believe that when there are feelings surfacing such as jealousy and suspicion there is a maturity factor at play. Being content within yourself first before committing life with another. If you are confident and happy with yourself then there is no possibility of jealousy or suspicion when you are in a love relationship with another. Likely because by that point you know what you want and what you don't want and are able to stand firm. The likelihood of attracting someone that is the jealous or suspicious type is almost nil. I am comfortable within my own self and when it comes to love relationship, I am not involved with someone who is insecure within themselves that they will possess jealousy or suspicion. Especially when there is no reason to. They are content within themselves as I am within myself and our choice to be together therefore there is never even any remote possibility of jealously or suspicion about anything like say infidelity. That is, in my opinion just an act of immaturity, especially within those who do commit infidelity, at which point the relationship should just be called off. Even more so if there is acts of jealousy and suspicion when there are no reasons to feel those emotions. Anyone like that and it is time to reconsider the situation. The person needs more time to get to know themselves before engaging in a relationship. That is what I think.
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
You don't have to live on a relationship that you makes unhappy, there is no reason to continue living with it, so you have to suspend your feelings to someone. Therefore suspension is a natural thing for a person to do.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
21 Apr 13
Trust in a relationship is important and there should be no scope of suspicion. If you suspect the person with whom you have a relationship, better end the relationship.
@vexxus (712)
• Philippines
21 Apr 13
I think Suspicion and doubts are essential part of a relationship, I guess if you look on the bright side, it just life saying that. Hey I trust you enough but don't abuse that trust, it just a reminder that you have to loyal at all times. because without the negative thoughts, positive things won't come out. it just like balance
@cloud31 (5809)
21 Apr 13
I seldom have this concept but when things happened to me once there will be no chance of taking me back to normal.I hate suspicious because I don't want anyone do the same to me. But I really cannot stand to trust once betrayal is concerned. Happy mylotting!