Today i am Weeping, Crying and Feeling bad... / myLot

India

April 20, 2013 10:28pm CST

I don't know why am i writing here this.... may be thats why because i have no one to tell.... Anyway, I already knew that my GF is not give more importance to me like her ex BF... its hurting so much but i want to with her because i believe that she is changed as time changing everyday. I was wrong... she is not going to change and not want to be changed... Two days ago i see a message on her facebook inbox.. that was her ex-bf... i read that message and she sending him lot of love message to him but he is not replying her.. after few message he replied and both are chatting to eqch other and finally she asks him... "i want to do relationship with you, what you say..." he replied, "don't know" after that so many talks between both like "why??" etc. She does not care about me.... now i am 100% sure... She does not care about our realation and want to got back her old relation... its really hurts me and i am weeping since that day... i don't like to eat anything and don't want to talk anyone.... just weaping, crying..... HOW SHE DO LIKE THIS WITH ME?? IF SHE CAN'T LOVE ME THEN WHY SHE MAKE RELATION WITH ME?? IF SHE GIVE MORE IMPORTANCE TO HER EX-BF NOT ME THEN WHY SHE SAYS I LOVE YOU?? There are so many questions like this my mind and i Crying every second, every minute and every day... ;-(

2 responses

jlsf0210

@jlsf0210 (26)

• Philippines

21 Apr 13

love really hurts my friend. Especially if you have given your all effort just to make your relationship work. Been there, done that. Try to confront her, just as much as its hard to do, you have to do it. Once she said that she really loves her ex, then you have really no choice but to let her go. Believe me, you'll get through this. Because you are not the first person who experienced that. Its hard, I won't sugar coat it, but it is also bearable. If she will say that she loves you too, then ask her to leave her ex, if she refuses - that's another way of her saying to you that she really doesn't love you, she is just pretending because she's afraid of what your reaction would be. that's all i can share to you. take care and you'll be happy soon.

RahulRLP

@RahulRLP (178)

• India

21 Apr 13

thanks dear... she is not going to leave her ex-bf i know her very well she says "he is my love and who are you telling me to leave him, you have no rights...., i love him so much." or something like this..... I am not talking her since two days and dont want talk to her.....

Angel

@nanayangel (7879)

• Philippines

21 Apr 13

Hi there RahulRLP! I am sorry to hear about what happened. I think that the best thing to do is to talk to your girlfriend and ask her about what you have read. I am sure that it is wrong to read those messages since these messages are private but since it's already done, you need to ask her about it and end the relationship. I know it is easier said than done but this experience will make you wiser and stronger. She's not worth it if she's being dishonest or unfaithful to you. You deserve someone better and I do not think there is any valid reason for cheating.

@RahulRLP (178)

• India

21 Apr 13

Thanks dear... i asked but she is saying nothing is as you thinking.... everytime i asked her, she says same reply so i don't talking to her and not chatting with her since two days... i also deactivate my FB account and switched off my phone because i am feeling so bad and don't talk with anybody.... She is happy with her ex-bf and want to get him back... hmmmmmmm that is my bad luck... i loved that girl who does not care about me.....