Career? or family? Which should I choose first?

I think it is important to pose this question: What was your friend's position on having children before she received the job offer? By the age of 35, most women have a very good sense of whether or not they want children, how many children they might like to have, etc. They are also often aware of health issues (besides age) that might affect their ability to conceive. You have described her as a career woman... and there is nothing wrong with that. Not everyone is destined to have children or to have more than one child, for example. I have a daughter who is just about to graduate university and she has every intention of attending grad school and going to wherever in the world she has to go to successfully pursue a career in forensic anthropology. She has told me clearly, from a rather young age, that she does not intend to have children. I respect her decision because it's one that we all have to make for ourselves.

Oh, this is a very difficult situation. Actually 34 years old is not very young to have a baby. After 5 years, your friend will be nearly 40 years old and at that time having a baby will be even harder. Perhaps the healthy situation is a big issue at that time. I am a traditional woman. I still think it is ideal to have a child at home. Even if you are so rich, but if you don't have any children, the happiness is still quite different. If I were your friend, perhaps I would choose to have a baby at present. And then after a year, I will try to see whether I can still have this job. After all, it is just one year.

That's a toughie. What would G*d say if she asked G*d?

I think she should go for her career because it's what she's been working for years.

Her situation is so tough. We do have a different priorities in life. If that was me, I should chose a career. Anyway, your friend and her husband should talk about it. If having a child is their priority, she will give up her career. This situation should be discussed by the two of them.

Dear friend, In such situation it is better to talk to your family members clearly on this topic because both sides are of great importance.She is going to lose both opportunity after some years. I think she must think of her family if other members of her family takes care of her because money is not everything.On the other hand if her family does not support her economically, she can choose her career to live her life in her own way.

Hi, It is very nice job opportunity for your friend. All her dreams can be fulfilled by this job. But now she is 35. Pregnancy is very difficult after the age of 40. So she have to take the decision of pregnancy after two years. Family is also important as money. So she have to find golden mean between family and job.

u say she s just married nshe is already 35,then without a 2nd thought ,she shd opt for her family.after 35age of awoman to have her 1st child,incidence of congenital anomalies go high.