Regret after helping someone.!

If there were no children involved. I assume there were none because if there were kids i would tell you that you should have beaten the life out of both of them, because of what they are putting the kid through. And she also wasnt any one of youse sister. Because if the phone call comes in and its your sister, or one of your friends sisters. That's it, the brother truns off and goes to handle the situation, and his friends follow, or not. Naturally. Since she was just a sister of a close friend, i say you should not have gotten involved. I mean i understand that you kindof had to do something because of your friend who requested that you come. But not call the police and all that. You should of went, calmed down the bully for a minute. Talked to the girl and ask her what does she want you to do. She would have told you call the pigs, don't call the pigs, kick him out of the house, beat the life out of him (of course in this case, youd have to tell her that you wont go to jail over this, so pigs will be necessary), so whatever would have brought the situation to an end would have been her choice, and that gets you "off the hook" for any blame you might be getting the next day. Like you are getting it now. Stupid pathetic little girl. She wants to stay in an abusive relationship. Let her. I hope he keeps on beating her every day! Stupid stupid stupid. Just tell her to NEVER have chrildren. To do her children a favor first, and to do the rest of us a favor second. There's enough such people on earth, we need no more...

I would ignore this girl. She is foolish if she does not appreciate that you helped her from being abused by her boyfriend. You know what...if I were you, I'd ignore it and even if I got another call..I'd do it again and let her btch and hate on me. Domestic violence is not ok and if she chooses to be in that situation so be it. If I know of it then I am going to do all I can to stop it and I really don't care what anyone has to say on it.

Hi Gaurav, I can relate to your situation, I know how it feels, I was in a worse condition as compared to yours. Last year, for four months my life was upside down because of something like this and at the end something similar to your situation happened. I was stunned, it took me 3-4 months to get back to normal but now I know b****s are b****s..you shouldn't help them, you leave them like that, so that they can die day by day and they have an inbuilt firmware that forces them to get screwed by b****ds. My Suggestion: Now that she has said that you were bullying and harassing that b***d, you should now take him to a better place and kick his a$$ nicely, trust me you'll feel good. Personal experience.

My advice is not to feel bad about this, you helped to the best you could and if it isn't appreciated, it is fine as you have acted out of the goodness of your heart. You have still made the world a better place simply with your selfless thought and action in helping, regardless of outcome.

i haven't experienced helping someone and regretting afterwards. i didn't know that the victims need to file charges in violations of the criminal law. i thought that this is only needed on civil cases. i was thinking that it's between the state and the violating citizen so even if the victim doesn't file a case as long as the police officers witnessed the crime, it becomes their duty to arrest and prosecute the offending person. obviously i am wrong...

I am sorry for you to be in that situation after lending a helping hand to the victim . I have not been in that scenario before. However, once beaten twice shy. So, I believe you will know what to do when such thing happens again . The girl seems to be not thankful with the helps given. I believe she chose to be in that condition and will surely learn the hard way. That is her liberty to do so .

Yes, I have had the experience of helping a friend and then regretting it because they didn't appreciate the help. What you experienced is common with domestic abuse victims. They will stay in an abusive relationship until they are ready to leave, and resent people trying to help them.