My mother is a day dreamer
By fearlessgara
@fearlessgara (1113)
Philippines
April 22, 2013 5:38am CST
She been a victim of false agents before. looking for a buyer or seller of an items which only based in pictures only through internet and words of mouth only which they easily believed this items are stone gecko and other types of gecko whom they believe can sell in Millions or Billions of dollars. and they will get easily rich by this because this is known according to the hoax is cure for AIDS. Another items they sell is the hidden treasure or gold, and other items which is unbelieavable.
I always Explaining to her that these things are all hoax every time she sell an item. and then it leads to big argument that he will scold or sometimes she hurts me. She think I am making a bad luck to her transaction that is why until know she never get big money and no transaction of her came true.
She believes in others sweat mouths than my words to tell to do transaction to a true job and not with others document without researching if it's really true or not. But for her. I bring misfortune to her luck.
She is being blinded with these people haven't she realize that she is 2 years doing this as a agent but nothing happen to her but just lead her to debt? She is really crazy.She don't realize that I only care since she is just being fooled with these types of scam . She accuse me that I am boastful that I am correcting her to let her know that I am only the one who knows everything.
That is her she don't listen to my advice even i am her daughter. She's hungry to have a big easy money but she don't realize if that is true or just a dream.She is a day dreamer.
I have done nothing nor put her into trouble for her to treat me like this. I only waant her to be good but she never appreciate it.I have done nothing against her.I don't know why she treat me like that.or perhaps she think she is my mother and she is overconfidence on herself.that's why she always being fooled.She always live with her pride.
4 responses
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
yes, continue reminding her politely cause one danger is even if she is a victim herself, she might become too embroiled with these people and passes over the scam like selling things to a third party, then she might get involved when somebody sues or files a complaint.The syndicate might even use her as a fall guy
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@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
yes, that is the possibilities that I am aware of that is why I keep on reminding her. but it's not working . she never face the reality and up to this moment believe in her co agent words and still living in illusion.
@emily7339 (1337)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 13
I guess it is for the good of your mother, you still need to be of help to her despite she dislike that. This is much better than she gets herself being scammed or deceived. I hope one fine day she will be able to wake up from her dream and thank you for saving her
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@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
thank you for your words. We have many differences and yes despite of that I still support her in the end as her is my mother though it is very upset to remember that she have more trust on others than her daughter.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
Sorry to hear about this but I suggest that you should not give up on reminding her.
It also saddens me and made me wonder why some people and even those professionals are being fooled by scammers/cheater and fraud people.
Why not search her personal things, some people are using ev*l stuff to make their victim in trance/ dreams or make believes.
I have heard one of my team mates how he finds a black seed inside his father's wallet- and believing it was an ev*l stuff he took the black seed and throw it in the sea.
And his father suddenly came back to his normal self.
Yes, his father abandoned them for another woman- though he still visits them once in a while (and one time while his father falls asleep and having siesta he managed to pull his father's wallet and saw that black seed)
After a few days that he throws the black seed- his father came home with all his baggage.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
Thanks for giving that story. Oh even in things that give fortune she do believe. addition to the story you share actually it's not the thing. but it's demon who uses the things so that he can fool people and people will find their luck and fortune in things instead of working hard and have faith in God.yes although not as eager as before but everytime she opens that I only keep reminding her that she is just being victimize by a scam.and yes of course over and over again.She get irritated with my answer.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
22 Apr 13
also one thing I noticed to her. even it just a simple thing she hysterical when she get mad she is very hyper.
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
24 Apr 13
Try to still continue to remind her. I'm sure someday she'll realize her mistake in believing the dream. She'll then thank you for keep reminding her. I hope that time will come very soon.
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
that is the different being a daughter she don't treat equally.She strongly believe in saying Mother's knows best..