Love a Friend

love is really a hard feeling to control, and i guess we cannot sacrifice our friends trust.

Yeah.. I'm with you in that.. :) Feelings are so hard to control.. However, we can prevent it even before you feel it so deeply.. I also believe in that..:) "Prevention is better than cure."

Hello Moon, Extreme is right. If you are feeling your friend´s love, and both are aware you love each other, and you don´t have commitments with anybody else, then there´s nothing wrong. I married my bestfriend. I met him when I was 13 and he was 15. We dated six months, my small brother was always with us. Then we stopped dating and we remained as friends. But we were friends for 11 years. He was my bestfriend. I was in a longtime relationship but this guy cheated me. I remember when I phoned my husband crying and looking for his support. He was my bestfriend ever, he knew me as his hand. My husband was also in a longtime relationship, but he was having problems with this lady, indeed he cheated her with another girl. Of course as I was my husband´s bestfriend I was aware of everything and I remember I was very mad with him because of this situation. I use to tell him he wasn´t being fair with the lady. So I was single, and he asked me to begging dating again but I denied. I just let one more year and a half to go straight. In this period he quitted his relationship with the lady, I got a church ministry, he got a good job, I began setting my business. And then he came again to ask me to begin dating. I was feeling happy and comfortable and I accepted. Our families got really happy for us. Everybody, our brothers, sisters and our parents, were very happy with our relationship. We soon got engaged, and then we married! We were friends for 11 years. Now we have three children, almost teens. We have 17 years of being married. My advice is if you love your bestfriend and you feel he loves you as much as you love him, just try to get a little bit closer. Women have a special sense. If you feel like he is the one, just try to approach to him. If he feels the same you are done. If not, just forget the idea, we don´t want you to get hurted. Blessings Extreme, blessings Moon... dainy

for the sake of friendship i understand.