if i'm a gay, can all of you understand me?

I can't say that something is wrong in you, it is not an issue of right or wrong if you like boy or man. Or sexually attracted to one with the same gender. It is not like doing calculation, say 1+2 is supposed to be 3, and you say 5, then it is alright to say you are wrong. Being a gay is what you are, not arise out of your personal choice. All you are doing is to like or love a person, i don't think there is anything wrong in it yourself unless it is proven by medical researcher, some of them claim it is because of defective genetic code or chromosome. It is still an on going medical research on why and how someone become gay/lesbian. I don't pretend to claim that i can understand you fully, as i don't even understand a straight; not just a gay or transgender.

We have no right to judge you, do things that can make you happy, don't force your self to like a things because it will only hurt you. Gay's should be respected and be treated as equal, there is nothing wrong with being gay as long as you don't hurt anyone. We have the freedom to choose on things that is good for us. Good thing to do is be your self, that is most important thing.

i have plenty of friends who are gay and they are as normal as any other human being. it's not a disease and nothing is wrong with your mind. why do you say you can't tell your parents about your being gay? i'm sure they love you and they will accept you as you are.