exchanging private messages with other mylotters...

Have I became friends with anyone here? I don't think so. Are you willing to become one? It doesn't matter As long as they're still here, responding and interacting with me around discussion area, it's already enough for me. I don't expect something more.

I don't write or receive a lot of private messages, but sometimes I exchange messages with a friend. Some time ago when I had some problems in my family and shared them in a discussion I received a couple of supportive messages from my friends, and I didn't expect that, but I really appreciate their concern for me. Some of my friends and I have become friends outside Mylot. We exchange emails and or messages on Facebook. So far I have never met aany of my friends from Mylot, but some of them have invited me to visit them in their countries and I hope that I will be able to do that in the future

I have a senior member from MYLOT in my Facebook profile whom i added as i respect him a lot.There are many other members as well whom i will send pm most probably in coming days.However i am not sure that if i send any pm to women/girls then how will they feel about it.The friends(girls) i have i real life tell me that they normally dont get a good impression if some guy tries to make friendship with them on Facebook /other social networking sites just like that.Probably the women/girls here too think that way,may be they will get offended like why this guy wants to know my name and other personal details.I joined MYLOT long ago but i didnt get time to be active here(although i was active for some time in Cricket section) because whatever leisure time i used to get for surfing i spent it on other discussion forums along with FB, Twitter and ESPNCRICINFO. Anyways now when i am active here ,i think its a cool place with lot of nice and friendly people.About exchange of ideas and knowing person's character, I respect people here and hence i have shared few incidents from my personal life too including some of my bad habits like i used to be a bully and all that.I did that just to make sure that i don't want to fake at all, whatever impression people are getting about me good/bad its up to them.Coming back to point of making friends here,we make friends when we travel in flights ,trains buses or when we are at some party/theater/malls/marriage ceremonies,so why not here on Mylot.

I do have friends here, some I private message with and others I talk to through email and a few I even talk to on Facebook. =) I feel really close with plenty of people here. I think we learn a lot about people here through their words. And then we do exchange messages and such to get to know each other more.

I always exchange my private message with only 1 person here. She very nice person. But look like she not very active in this few days. Maybe she have some problem.

One of the reasons I joined myLot is because of this feature. I'm looking forward to having friends here. Honestly, sometimes it's better to have a friend online than having someone who knows you for real but befriends you for your physical appearance or uses you for their own benefit. Don't judge a book by it's cover, as they say. I'm really glad that there are websites like myLot where we can freely express our opinions while helping each other.

hik dagami I have been here over six years so have made a lot of friends d have had lots of private messages from many here. Theyhave become real friends to me and worried when I was sick anf when I fell and hurt myself. I h ave also listened to their problems and offered a hand , a shoulder to cry on and any advice that might help.I am always willing to be a real fri end.,

Oh yes, I use it a lot to make contact with my friends. And yes, after being here nearly six years I have some very good friends. friends who stood by me during my two heart suregeries last year when I was dying. They stuck by me and I stick by them. Some friends I have phoned and spoken to as well. If you hang around then you will make very good friends too over the years to come

I have a few whom I send Private messages with. But never did I entice them to join a site I belong to under my link. I have fun exchanging messages with them and hopefully, the friendship would flourish.

as for me, i haven't had any real or close friends here on mylot. most of the people on my list just send me request and i approve them and a few i have send request to them myself just based on how i see them post discussions or a reply to my topics. i haven't really taken time to send a private message to my friends, i don't have much time for that right now, i have few friends here who have send me messages on referring me to something online..if there is anyone who would be willing to exchange private messages and i can see their good, why not? but mostly there are few people nowadays online who are real or someone to be trusted even as friends..and some don't last that long..

I was able to gain friends here and some of my friends are also member of others sites that I have. And yes we often exchange messages on just about anything. It's a good feeling to know that somebody is there for you especially during those moments that you really feel down. Have a great day!

I always exchange my private message with only 1 person here. She very nice person. But look like she not very active in this few days. Maybe she have some problem.

I would think it is possible to make friends but since you do not meet them in person and can only know them from their messages, just be careful like how you will with online friends and do not reveal too much personal details or info.