washing ur bf cloths
By bianca
@bb66able (13)
Portmore, Jamaica
April 23, 2013 1:41pm CST
Ok so my bf asked me to wash his cloths because he goes to work and stuff... And doesnt have any time to do it sometimes.. Before we hooked up about 6-7 months now ... His ex was washing his cloths.. I told him its kinda inappropriate...so he made her stop... Now he is saying I need to do them since he works... I got laid off a couple weeks back from my job about 1 month now... I don't live with him but I see him very often... Am not use to doing these things.. Obviously he is used to getting his cloths washed by his lady.. What would anyone do in this situation?.. Because I refuse to wash them..
6 responses
@sarameastrong (826)
• Surrey, British Columbia
24 Apr 13
oh my boy friend is not like your boyfriend .that's not appropriate that's not your responsibility ,you better instruct him to go to laundry station.i dont know maybe he just want to have a girlfriend to become his servant .but if he loves he must not acting like that he is so mean i am sorry to say those words ,let him wash his own clothes or he must marry you first and then you become his wife then you are responsible to wash his clothes,thats my opinion.
@bux123 (96)
• India
24 Apr 13
yes and craft first of all he should marry her then we can ask her to do this thing.right now she's not his wife so he may not have proper rights to do these things.I will not support this thing I do not ask my girlfriend to wash my clothes.if she comes to wash his clothes not a problem.
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
23 Apr 13
why can't he hire someone to do the laundry for him? or maybe there are some laundry shops in your place, he can take his dirty clothes there. tell him that you don't like to wash his clothes. there are lots of working men who live alone and they don't make their GFs wash their clothes.
@bux123 (96)
• India
24 Apr 13
as you said he's not enough time to wash his clothes I can give to laundry or someone to watch scrubs for money.nothing wrong to give clothes to laundry.yeah she's interested then she will wash the clothes he's not interested she will not wash his clothes then we will be an argument between this couple.
@CandyzNikka (380)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Hi bb66able! If you love your boyfriend, it will be a fun thing to do. Boyfriend and girlfriend relationship will most likely end up with marriage or separation right?
Washing my boyfriend's cloth is in a way of getting to know each other too. I find it as a cool way of bonding to each other. It's a practice of becoming a future wife and a future mom. I wash my clothes and if I wash my boyfriend's clothing, I treat it the way I want my clothes be washed. If he has special instructions, I do it without hesitation (If he wants to use fabric softener or not because I don't normally use it). If I am sick, he also do the same thing. He wash my clothes with a smile on his face. Have a lovely day! 
@inopiratum_a_medio12 (877)
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24 Apr 13
continue rejecting him and besides you were right it's not appropriate tell him to bring his clothes to laundry shop it will be convenient for both of you
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
23 Apr 13
I don't think it's your obligation to wash his clothes at all. You're right. It's inappropriate, unless you're engaged and practicing household chores. Everyone works nowadays, so he can't use it as an excuse. If he's too lazy, he could get his laundry done by going to laundry stations. You could talk to him about this and explain carefully that you have other things to do. If he won't listen to you, continue refusing. Eventually, he'll have to deal with his clothes by doing it himself. I believe that each person is responsible for himself/herself. Good luck!
