Your Best Friend
@angelarosario (77)
Philippines
April 23, 2013 3:55pm CST
Hello myLotters! I know all of us had many friends, some friends, or no friends at some point. You get the drift. We come across different kinds of people in our daily lives. However, there can only be one twin soul out there who can understand you. You may be similar or opposite in everything but you understand each other the most through thick and thin.
Finding your real best friend is one of the greatest struggles in life. I can say this for a fact since we meet so many people that it can get confusing most of the time. You're lucky if you knew your best friend from the start.
I had previous best friends especially during my elementary days who didn't even know the meaning of a best friend. They would just say, "Hey, you're now my best friend," and voila! The truth can't be denied though. How we treated each other showed clearly that we really weren't.
Now that I have found my best friend, I haven't been alone for the last four years. I'm really really glad that I found him.
How about you? What stories can you share about your "best friends" or best friend?
7 responses
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Hi ! I have meet so many people in this world and some became my bestfriend. I have found out, not all bestfriend are meant to stay for long and for life. I have observed that there is an expiry for some bestfriend , what i mean is they stay only if they can get something from you but if time comes that they won't be getting anything they will leave , even a message they won't be sending anymore. I have learnt a lesson , i will never trust a friend. It is better to not be attached to other people because someday they 're true colors and real motive will come out and there we will know that indeed they are not a best friend. For now i have a soulmate and i consider him a bestfriend. I guess he is enough and i don't need to find other people to make my life messy.
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
The past best friends you had are the "best friends." You're only best friends by name but not in action. You're right. I've been through the same. I'm glad you also finally found your soul mate. Hopefully, your relationship lasts. Cheers!
@Kmz059 (652)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Ouch! I miss my bestfriend, she is Cherry I treat her as my bestfriend and as my sister. She is my room mate when I'm still studying in college. I met her in school she is 1 year older than me, we shared our experiences. We hang out together, every evening before we sleep we will have a conversation of what happens the whole day. But now we have our own life, she live at Manila and I am here in Dagupan that is 6 hours from there.
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Take it as a challenge! Try communicating with her even though you're far away. If you really care for each other, I think you can go through with a long distance relationship with your best friend. You may not see each other now, but you may always see each other in the future.
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Take care of your relationship with Rong. Middle school is one of the highest points between best friends. It can decide your future with each other. Hopefully you'll still be best friends by the time you finish middle school. Best of luck!
@radharani1 (18)
• India
24 Apr 13
My mother is my best friend. Nobody cares when I am hungry in this world, but my mother will ask me I have taken my lunch or not? so all persons should take care of their mother. thanks to all
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
You're right! Mothers will always be there for their children. They give unconditional love and support!
@RAJASB (109)
• India
24 Apr 13
A best friend is often heard in stories or seen in fairy tales. He exists very rarely. Friendship in teenage is different to that of friendship in your middle age and old age. Once a person gets married, he/she gets struck with the family and work, many may move out of home town or to other country in search of living, though they stay connected by email or phone calls, the term "Best Friend" will be too far.
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Yes, having a best friend is being committed with each other. That's why there are rare friendships that last long. Some don't survive due to big life decisions.
@robysinghsheenh (51)
• India
24 Apr 13
I have found no human still now but god is my best friend atleast he forgive,love,provide jot and that are the primary conditions that are necessary for a person to be a friend and all other friends make fun of and insult other rare are good.
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
I'm glad that you have found a best friend spiritually and that you're happy with your social life.
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
24 Apr 13
I had a best friend from 4 yrs old til right before i moved away in my senior year of high school. We told each other everything and did everything together. Then i moved to another state for my last year of high school we lost touch and i met my neighbor and we became best friends and have been now for 24 yrs. Tho i found my long lost best friend on classmates.com and we are now friends again and have been since 2001. I do still tho have my best friend from when i moved to the other state. So i have 2 best friends and they are both like sisters to me. Tho if family can be best friends then my hubby is one and so is my mom but not blood related are these 2 people i mentioned and i tell them everything as they tell me and we are always there for each other. Tho one is far away from me right now in the military we keep in touch through facebook. I am going to a baseball game May 1 with the one that lives close to me.
@angelarosario (77)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
Wow! You're very lucky to have many best friends. I'm glad you didn't have to encounter any unfortunate event before you met them. I always envy people who have childhood friends. You should treasure every moment that you spend with them. I think you'll never be alone. :)
