our neighbor has another woman

Yes, in plain language it is murder!

Such mundane carelessness and disrespect for other people's lives! I am not an angel, but if he seems to have a very happy family, why did he even think of having an affair and think of aborting a child who is innocent of their craziness? At least he should be a father to the child instead.

I am also against abortion. For sure your neighbor knows what is right from wrong and for me since I don't really know the whole story other than basing it on your discussion, I cannot easily judge them. If I'm also you I cannot just close my eyes but I can't also just talk to them. What I can only do is pray for them to have the conscience of not committing abortion. It's a sad reality that there are plenty of irresponsible and selfish people doing the act without thinking of the consequences.

In our world today nothing is impossible. For us to survive we must strengthen our patient on things around and be on watch of the product of what we are doing. For me abortion is not a crime as long as it will be done properly. To abort is better than to raise an unwanted child and let him suffer on the wildness of cruel people. If we trust GOD, we must believe that whatever we want will not succeed if GOD will not approve. He is trying ways to abort the child but if GOD will not approve then it will be born whatever effort he tries.

Having an illicit affair is already a mortal sin and taking the life of an unborn baby make sit all worse! Tell your mom that she should not implicate herself in such evil acts because it will only make her an accessory to the crime.

What kind of people are they? They cheated and now they want to abort the baby inside the womb? OMG!!! They are crazy! I don't condone abortion, yes I got pregnant at the age of 18 but I raise my child and let him see the beauty of the world.

Oh that is horrible thing to do. I wonder why he would ask that from you their neighbor for that. I really think that he should stand for what he did and try to let the child be born and he should support her and accept the responsibility of fathering his/her unborn child. If it was a mistake having a relationship with his co-worker then I think he still has to be responsible and accept the consequence for it.

Whatever he wants to do, he has no right to get his neighbors involved in his problems. I am shocked that he asked your mother about abortive meds. He has no sense of decency. Shame!

as i have read your post, as for me, abortion is not an option. but, i guess, the best thing to do now is to advice your neighbor so he can be enlighten up on the situation that he is encountering now. sometimes, we tend to think of a quick remedy just to patch up what has been committed at the moment, hence, we didn't think what would be the consequence after sometime. and, it is really hard to think when you are in the midst of an agony.

Wow, that's so bad. I couldn't tolerate that too. Shocking. He's solving his problem with another problem. Oh my! He's already doing something bad to his family and he's doing another bad thing to his unborn baby. Tsk tsk. Why do some people do that? I don't understand. Some people can be so bad sometimes. God forgive him.

First of all I think that if you have happy family , 2 kids and a calm life you have to be responsible on a high level so for me this is absolutely an intolerance. So ruing your own life doing this nonsense is kind a unfair about your family.Eventually this is his own life and he could make everything he wants.

well it matter a win-win situation,,if he raise the baby her family would probably lost...if he abort the baby he has a chance to fix his family.. Well i cant judge becoz i just read the small piece of thier situation.."-)

i feel that the man taking a life is immature.its murder and it doesn't change what happen between him and the co-worker. keeping the child now may seem like a mistake but later in d future, i will be glad that he didn't do it.

It took years for me to STOP condemning others, or throwing stones at people's glass houses. No matter how I may feel about some one Else's life decisions, it really isn't my business, especially if it doesn't directly affect me. Show me a perfect person, and I show you a liar.

We can never really tell how a person lives his/her life. It's sad to know that his family looks happy yet he is having an extra-marital affair, and now on the verge of aborting the baby. I think he is happy with his family, and just had a sidetrip with another girl to break the monotony. I will never really know his reason for doing such a thing. But getting rid of the baby is just a manifestation that he is not really serious with that girl, and that baby will only cost him his family, and he is not yet ready for that. I hope he gets to his senses, and face the consequences of his actions before it's too late. The baby deserves to live.

This sounds like a lifetime movie on the lifetime channel. I don't condone abortion but what people do is none of my business. He will not be able to do anything about the baby if she is not willing. Unless he is going to tell her the pill is for the pregnancy without her knowing it so she lose the baby. I know I watch to many crime shows. Who knows she probably wants the abortion and was to embrassassed to go to the store to get the medicine.

i don't think he can kill his unborn baby if the woman doesn't allow it. it is the would - be mom who will decide on this and i hope she decides well for the sake of her unborn baby. i hope your mom didn't help him. he has no shame. he knows he is putting your mom in an awkward situation by asking for her help and yet he did. i know your mom must be caught between deciding whether to confide in the wife or not. this is hard. that man has no qualms in involving other people in his private affairs. he didn't even think about the consequences of this on your mom. if she helped him and the lady decides to abort the baby, she will become an accomplice to this horrible act.