When I am almost feel to revenge I need an advice.

Philippines
April 23, 2013 5:59pm CST
He never changes He is still same as he was before,selfish and envy. although He hides that attitude.When my brother in law starts to work. He help my uncle to have job and work there.When MY brother in law wanted to resign secretly and tell him.then he told it to the superior.why do I said that? it's because his superior told him 'since he will resign He already hired replacement for him and that person was also endorsed by my uncle. but my uncle said he wanted to work in my brother in law's duty . but instead that one was replace there instead of him so he still didn't succeed. He recently set free by the jailed because He is using alias. and I am really disappointed with our government for they didn't found that.He uses that alias to get police clearance and applying for a job. Now that My brother in law was hired again in new job. then on that day he passed his resume secretly . and wanted to work there. I wanted to make a away for him not to work there. If I can tell that he is using fake name he wouldn't be hired but he have 2 little daughters my cousins who will be go to School this coming June.And also he is jobless now that's why my aunt is the one who provide for his expenses and he wanted to need a job I also know that. But the problem he is a simple traitor and envy and with such envyness he makes a way how to destroy us.and of course I wasn't able to confront him it will only lead to trouble he was an ex-criminal he killed not once not twice but many without any reason. since he was before is under influenced of drugs. He told us he wanted to change his life . but should I believe Him again? I lost my trust on him after he made it to my brother. When I text that superior anonymously the superior do know my real name and nobody will tell it except him my uncle because it's him who only knows the number I used in the internet.He also traitor me. When I told him He is the only who knows my number. He just keep quiet on that. He is older than Me but I am kind lost even my respect to him.Now I see Him Demon again as before. I wanted to tell the police he is using the alias. But if I did that he will send back in the jail again and my 2 cousins his daughter will be separated again.and will go to our far relatives to study.God said not repay evil those who do evilness to us.and love your enemies and this word keep me until not to do that. But my anger unto him is still here in my heart.because we don't deserve to be traitor by Him we always done good things to him when He need something we always help him.but in exchange evilness is what he always do whenever he find a way to destroy us.Should I ruin his life in seeking for revenge. or should I let him.It will surely creates big trouble when I confront him I really need your advice my co-lotters.Thanks in advance
3 responses
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
24 Apr 13
if someone tries to intentionally harm you, you have a right to defend yourself. however, before you do anything drastic that might cause irreparable damage to your relatives, why don't you try to discuss your problems with him? if diplomacy doesn't succeed, then it's the time for you to act. please don't do anything that is against the law because it can backfire and you will end up with more problems.
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• Philippines
24 Apr 13
thanks for your good views.
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
24 Apr 13
It seems that there`s no way to conforont him as you say it will be worse. But I am sure thta if he has that much power (for whatever reason) you cannot do him any harm without doing harm to yourself and your loved ones too. So if you know all this, why don`t you think what you really want to do? Do you want him back in jail? What will become of your cousins then? how can you really help setting this straight? How is he destroying you?
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
I have no day right now.that is the reason why I put this into discussion for I am open for someone's advice.In destroying me I cannot predict exactly how he will do. He always done it in surprise.I only knew it when it is done. or I just caught him saying bad things against my family.He is a halfbrother only of my mother. so he is different to the rest of us here.
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
well, we must be happy now.My uncle went yesterday to the company and forcing himself to work .using a false name.now is my uncles day to work as I am not surprise now that guy ask to go home he doesn't work and my uncle do now working. so see, He wins from his evil plans as what I suspected.
@2aero2 (60)
• United States
24 Apr 13
just leave him alone. who cares if he got a job and lied about it, life is already hard dont make it harder for any else, sounds like you might be jealous
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
it's not jealousy I made I helped him before that. I am just afraid that he bring trouble and traitor us again.