what pains you more?

Hypothetically speaking both would pain me because neither is good. Only one being a womanizer would hurt my heart and one that hits would be hurting my body. So neither is good and I wouldn't want either one. Thank God that I'm blessed with a good guy who is not chasing woman nor would he think of ever hitting me. I feel so bad for females who end up with either type of guy. I know if I ended up with that type I would not stay I would be moving on.

both will give us pain so i don't think there is a point in comparing the two.

Hello biach, Womanizer and a hitter both of a choice that will definitely hurt a woman or a wife. The most hurting part is it is the children who usually suffers in this kind of situation. For me, when a man starts to do such things, love is no longer a part on the relationship, thus, both the husband and wife must refuel it to keep the relationship go stronger. RESPECT, must be always be a vital part of the union too, without this, everything will turn out a happy relationship into a sorrowful one. Happy mylotting!

I am lucky that I have a good hubby, he doesn't hit me or even had a third relationship with other girl. But once he hit or have a other girl I know it is very painful for me. But for me it is more painful if he had a other woman because I am not the only who feel hurts but also our son.

This is a question that is thankfully not as relevant today as it was prior to 30 years ago. A lot has changed and if you are going to be in a relationship as a woman or man, you have the right to leave it at anytime, without consequence if you are in danger or feeling emotionally useless. Don't live in the past and remember that you only live once, so you must never live in fear or terror.