long distance relationship makes me paranoid all the time

long distance relationship is a really big challenge for couples. based on what i've seen almost all long distance relationship will eventually fail. however, your case is different since you are already married. i don't even consider it as a long distance relationship, since it's already more than just a relationship. you and your husband are one. you are committed to each other and your kids. the best thing you can do is avoid starting an argument when you are chatting. small things like this will have huge impact to both of you. instead of enjoying each other's company you will end up arguing, and who knows what will happen if it continues like that. trust your husband. be there for him, listen to him. i think you understand the situation better, so you better take charge of your marriage. be nice to him. stop thinking about him having extra marital affairs, coz if it will happen, it really will happen, and you being hostile is not helping the situation. i don't know what your circumstances are, but i'm speaking through experience because i'm a survivor of this so called long distance relationship.

based on my experienced i can honestly say, its not easy bieng there.. . it requires effort, understanding and long patience... Its nice to be cared , but it is much nicer if your with that someone , you can see each other give your sweetest hug and hold hands... BUT it will work if you want it too... but temtptation is around the corner so be careful and be vigilant always..

Oh dear, you are in a very difficult situation. I can't blame you for feeling that way. Indeed, it is not good for the husband and wife to have long distance relationship. They are subject to temptation. I've seen so many long distance relationship that did not work although there are few that survive (thank God!) How could the husband survive life without his wife? He is biological needs after all. In that case, it is the husband who is more prone to temptation. I do understand why you turn paranoid. Well what can you do...just pray that your husband will not be tempted and also pray that your long distance relationship will not be for long.

He must be really busy and might be uncomfortable letting you see how tired he is. Don't let jealousy eat up your mind. Give your full trust in him. I am sure he misses you more.

Yes, you are right friend long distance relationship trigger some paranoid thoughts. I also feel this when my husband work in other city. I think it is a good idea if you express your feeling to get the best solution. Yes, it is important to keep your love.

hey kimte20 that's natural to feel that way in a sense that you and your husband is in a long distance relationship i feel that too but in my case were not yet married but still i feel that his on other shoulder lol in this case most of girls or even boys are paranoid thinking of what his/her husband doing did he/she has an affair with someone its so tough for us but dont get into our mind that he/she has doing something wrong lets trust each other in the end it will end last for t he two of you patience and trust is the key to leave lastng forever...

I think physical presence is a vital element in order for a relationship to last. Although some people say that long-distance relationships are possible, I feel that these relationships would be a challenge for both. Doubts can easily set in. I think it's really better if you could find some way that you could be with your husband. In the meantime, you just have to be optimistic about the situation. A little prayer might help too :)

Hi ! Near or far if you are committed to each other then nothing will happen but human as are we have a weak nature , sometimes we are tempted especially if we are distant with our love one. It is but normal to entertain thoughts that might be our partner have someone out there but let us not dwell on this rather divert your attention, do something productive that can make you happy. Always communicate to husband with good and loving mood , but reminds him always your vows and commitment for each other , most importantly is to pray to God.

I really think that when two people love each other, they'll keep the relationship going whether they are together or far apart. It's normal to feel paranoid since you don't see your husband every minute but you have to learn to trust him. If he loves you, he won't do anything that he know will hurt you :) Just keep the faith and maintain communication with him :)