Why Love Is Really Hurt?

What has made you think about your 4th girlfriend if you are satisfied with your girlfriend now? I think that is being unfair to your current girlfriend.

once the past is is past it is best not to think about it and let it die along with the broke heart that it has caused I do hope that the one your with now will be around for a long time to come

I think you should know yourself first, to know what you like and who you like. You start relationships for what reason??? With girls you say you did not love that much after all. Might be the last one felt exactly the same about you as you felt about the others. These things happen. To my opinion there is no reason to go on if people turn out to be too different to spend the rest of your life with. I wonder if it's love that is hurting or it's your ego. The fact someone (this time) doesn't want you. Ever thought about that? Since I think this is in most cases why we feel hurt. Although this doesn't mean we are a bad person or we won't be able to find the love of our life. Life is about experiences, so is love.

I'm probably one of the few people who does not believe in the saying "It is better to have love and lost than to have never loved at all." I just don't like that statement, it does not resonate with me. It's like saying "It's better to have had sxx than to have never had sxx." You just don't know what you're missing if you have never had it. I think compassion is something everyone should be able to experience, but love..not so much.

Love hurts because when we love we almost give all ourselves , heart and soul , thats why when someone leaves us as we can hardly stand because everything we have given almost nothing left in us , which should not be the way. When we love it should be half -half system. Have ourselves given and half for ourself , so whatever happens we still can survive and in your case so played so much with girls thats why it bounces back now . Be faithful to one girl and you'll find love beautiful .

It is totally unfair to the new one to be in the relationship while you are still having your past haunting you. Love truly hurts most of time especially if we get ourselves imprisoned which something that does not really exists anymore. You need to move. It may take for awhile but you have no choice. It is only you who can uncahin yourself from the past.

I think most times it is not true love that now a days people engages in. I think most of them are fantasized by movies and love in movies and people go after others for relationships without commitment and not fully getting involved with each other. I think sometimes we wanted somebody to love us and not to receive our love. There is long sense of wanting love than giving love. I think no girl who does not love is greater than the girl who loves us. I think most probably people who loves us matters more than people whom we love. I think as time passes you will find your true love.