checking your husband's phone

I never check my husband's cellphone. I trust him that he never cheat my love. Yes, I don't know whether I too trust to my husband ? But, I feel discomfort when I do not trust my husband when I never know he was cheat my love.

No. I'm scared to find out something that he might be hiding from me. Lol! But as much as possible, I respect his privacy. I'm not really the suspicipus type and I trust him completely. I don't even have access to his email and Facebook account :))

my husband does not text however yes I have checked numbers in the past and address on note cards. I see it this way my husband my rules, and if another is suspected in the past I just called them and told them he was married and children but if they want him and are serious they can go and as long as they support the children...this only happened once many years ago. some husbands go astray however both needs the truth either it ends there or the other lies to one. I just am firm and honest so expect if they want me they need to be to...or what ever...I forgive but once is it ...

My husband doesn't have one, but I do, and we look at each other's stuff all of the time. 23 years together is a long time, trust has a lot to do with it, but we also look out for each other.

trust is really great in relationship... but there are some events which break trust.. i have so mush trust on my husband while he was my bf but the day of our marriage a .... called him and that day he said to me that he is paying for them.... and lied to me during my trust and for that i could not trust him... as many times chances that i gave him but he failed so i am just living with him and i am not interested to his anything even his phone... let him to die with all of those fraud and lies....

I don't usually check my husband's cellphone because I do not want him to do the same. We had misunderstanding way back and I don't want that to happen anymore. Anyway there's nothing to worry about it because his cellphone is just place anywhere in our bedroom. There is nothing to be suspicious about...at least for the meantime! hhahaha

Hi Kmz059, I don't check my hubby's mobile phone. I will call him telling him he has received a new text if he is busy somewhere around the house. unless I'm asked to read the coming text for him. I will just ignore it if he is sleeping or in the bathroom. I know that he will check his phone every now and then. Happy posting

hi, just to share my idea about this thing. I'm also a wife and sometimes had suspicions just like any other woman out there specially when your hubby never put his mobile and never leave even for a few minutes. To satisfy my suspicions I checked his mobile and read the text messages , and found out that he is texting an old friend and it worsened the situation. I haven't regret doing so but it gives me a lesson that " what you do not know won't hurt you".

I used to not check on his mobile phone coz i don;t want him to be prying on mine. But there was in incident a few years back that prompted me to check on his phone every once in a while. I hear "something", got furious about it. I asked him about it but denied. I did not argue with him any further, but it was enough for me to know that eventhough how much a good wife I am to him, still he could do "something" behind my back.

I have a boyfriend and every time we are together, I usually borrow his phone for sound trips and even watch downloaded funny videos. He is not so strict when it comes to privacy and he just let me read his inbox. I don't care anyway. I trust him that much.

it is very bad habit to see any one private things because it creat confusion that make doubt which creat rift resutant qurell so avoid all these thing and devlop your good relations

Hi, im not a wife but I live with my brother who happens to be a married man. He is having a very big trouble with his wife recently.It all started when He just got home from a whole day work and left his mobile phone unattended on bed.He was doing something in their room when my sister in law checked his facebook account from there, i think he forgot to sign it off.A moment later we heard my sister in law asking what is this in the inbox. When my brother heard it he immediately tried to take the phone away from her so she asked, why,are you hiding something? He is telling my sister in law about her improper jealousy which has provoked her to put up a fire.Shes got even mad when she found out that my brother changed his password a day later. She just told me yesterday that she decided to go abroad. We talked today and she told me about her problems about my brother being so fond of girls her met on facebook.She said she needs space from her husband. I never really thought it could come up to this. They never speak to each other until now.

I never check my husband's phone, since I trust in him. He know sins and believe in God. So do I. My husband also never check my phone

Yes, i check my boyfriend ( for now, just boyfriend)phone any time i have ocassion. But we usually do that, he is checking my phone to. And yes, if he have a new message i'm the first who read it :))

That is something that I never did unless I was asked to. I had it done to me many times and I think it is very rude of a person to do that. To me it is a sign of insecurity when one snoops in anothers phone messages.

I know without a doubt my husband would never do anything to hurt me or destroy our marriage so if he gets a message I would wake him and give him his phone. I have no reason to suspect anything with him at all.

Some times but not all of the time. Mostly when I do check its because we have the same friends or I'm going to tell that person he is sleeping and will answer back later. Now if both of ours goes off when know its the same person so I just answer from my phone. But I leads try to respect his privacy.

No. I never check my husband phone without his permission and when he's sleeping I can't check his phone because I am sleeping me. Even were married for 7 years we still respect our privacy.

when my husband arrives home, he puts his phone on the table and forgets about it. i sleep late and when i hear a message alert, i read it if he's already sleeping. if it looks important, i wake him up. he does same things with my phone. we don't have secrets, it's like our phones are conjugal property. if my friends can't reach me, they call him. and vice versa for his friends. however, i only answer calls on his phone when i see that the caller is a friend of mine.

Yes,both we check each other,that's normal to both of you And besides we trust each other so nothing to worried about.