How do you work at redirecting your negative feelings?

I honestly say that I don't deal with them well. In similar situations I have just blurted out my feelings in an angry and aggressive way at my hubby. I can honestly say that there is too much stress in my life right now and really only being by myself helps. While I am alone I try to take deep breaths and clear my mind. I also pray and read my Bible on subjects such as anger and even compassion. I hope things improve.

most of the time I will try to take a walk alone if I can but since your husband went off to bed and you was left with your child to care for that is hard and i agree with you that it would have not been that hard to get her the few things that she wanted and send her back to bed hope that all is better now

Not trying to offend you at all but he seems really lazy to me! He should be helping you, it is both of your child-not just yours! You didn't get yourself pregnant so he should help out. He should give you time for yourself too. It is really sad that you have to do everything for him, but at the same time there has to be some good in him to make you want to live this way...

I think you should have a talk with him about each others' duties. He appears to be lazy and not doing work when you are. He should try to understand your point of view, but you should understand his as well so that you can negotiate things better.

I guess you should talk to your husband about it so that he will know what you feel. My husband was like that but I talked to him and he understands me. Whats the best I did was when it was his day off, I get myself a part time job. My husband was the one taking care of our baby boy. In just that day he realized how hard was my duties. He ask for forgiveness and I quit on my job. So, that made him good.

I am so glad I don't have to deal with, people bothering me when I get online to earn my money, I hope you are able to work this out, about your husband not doing things for himself, and want you to do everything for him, this has got to be annoying.

I guess you should talk to your husband about it so that he will know what you feel. My husband was like that but I talked to him and he understands me. Whats the best I did was when it was his day off, I get myself a part time job. My husband was the one taking care of our baby boy. In just that day he realized how hard was my duties. He ask for forgiveness and I quit on my job. So, that made him good.

Have you tried telling all this to him? I mean your thinking and feelings about he's being like that? Maybe he's not aware of what he's acting??.. Well, most of husbands (though I don't have one yet,hihi) think that a wife should be the one who is always responsible for taking care of the children and that's too tiring I guess, especially if you're also working or striving to get some money for the bills. He should know that (because men are most of the time, insensitive, -don't hate me,men who are reading this. I just read this from a book.) Anyway, yeah, most men need to hear it directly from you that you are tired, depressed, annoyed, angry and so on. On my opinion, it's better to discuss this..everything you want to say..in a peaceful conversation. Most of the situations, as I always hear, can be okay with a good talk. Also, as for me, it is the best way to do my work better. I mean, when I'm mad at someone, I really can't begin working.. so all i do is send him/her a message, call, or even talk personally.. though it can't be settled right away, atleast I re.lease everything I want to say and do what I can to make it okay..:) I can work peacefully then.. ^^