what if your ex trying you to win him back what will you do?
By sorima24
@sorima24 (77)
Philippines
April 26, 2013 10:11am CST
Hi mylotters,i had an ex living partner and he is now trying me to
Win him back,but i really dont like to axcept him again because of all
He did to me,he wasted the time when we are together infact we had
Two children now it comes to break up because he cheated me and i saw
Them both,you know its really hurt that your love cheated you..i leave him,Now we
Still have communications in facebook but i dont like him anymore
Because i know he did not change.
If you are in my situation do you accept him again?
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6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Apr 13
I think that if you really no longer love him them at least give him the responsibility to be a dad to your kids. He lost his chance. Now he needs to understand how stupid he was for doing that move.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
26 Apr 13
sorima24
I am sorry for your situation. While it would be easy to say ignore him, you have 2 children with him and so he will be in your life. The best I can think of is to firmly tell him you are not interested in getting back together but for the sake of the children, especially while they are young, you want to at least get along.
I wish you all the best in this difficult situation..God Bless
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
26 Apr 13
I feel like there is a reason an ex is an ex. Therefore unless proven to you of their changes, I would never take them back again. If you want to go down the same road all over again, that is up to you but I would never take an ex back! If their an ex it means they were not good to me and we could never work out now or in the future...
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Apr 13
I tried with my ex-husband 3 times again, I waisted many years of my life. It was a lost case. He was not really interested just could not stand the idea somebody would not want him. After that he stalked me for over 14 years. I ended my relationship with my ex bf about 7 years ago after I spent and tried and wasted many years with him as well. Now he is still thinking I want him back. Ignore and go on with your life. Nothing will change. there is a good reason why you are exes.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
26 Apr 13
well I would never take any of my ex's back ever in my life once they are out the door they are gone for good