Ignored again

If you don't mind me asking, how much does she owe you?

I hope you learned your lesson to not loan anthing of value to anyone. If your friends friendship, you should consider the money a gift, but don't loan her anything else. She is not trustworthy.

This happened to me too many times.my niece borrowed money and said she'd give it right back..that was about 9 years ago and I never seen a penny of the money back yet. about a month after she borrowed it I asked her if she had any of it because I have children so I really need my money. she gave me a dirty look and said "NO!". so I learned to never load her anything again. then a friend wanted to fo with me to the casino but had no money so she borrowed some from me and said her check from work would be coming in the mail any day so she'd pay me back. she never did. I learned that if I don't want to give a person the money that I shouldn't loan it to them..because odds are they wont pay it back. family and friends are the worst when it comes to repaying loans. if you really want her to pay it back. send her a message saying you really need it and she can pay you in payments if she cant give it all at once.

that's a better idea. You'll just grow wrinkles if you keep on thinking of that. if ever you meet her someday, ignore her, she doesn't deserve any of your attention.

Let me get this right she was talking fine to you until you asked about the money?

Some people are like that they are always ready to take money but never want to give that back, it is really sad for those people because they lost their faith and nobody would faith on them in future and if they would be in need then they would get difficulty. I also have some friends to whom i have given money various time but when i ask them to give they money back they just ignore it,So now i don not have faith on any and i do not give my money to anybody except my family members and my most trusted friend, Hope she would give your money back to you

That's too bad. When did you lend her?

Just give up on the friendship. Obviously she has no plans of paying you back otherwise, she should have sent you a message of apology for not being able to pay you on time.

I would never loan her money again. She doesn't sound like much of a friend if she won't text you back. Sorry but people like that are users and are not worth having for friends.

I've been through this kind of situation for a lot of times. So whenever somebody asked for help regarding financial matter, I would only lend the amount that I know I would be able to give without expecting it to be returned. So if my money is just enough I would certainly decline the request. As of now I think what you should do is to forget about it. Have a great day!

That's the sad thing about lending money to friends. It can make-or break the friendship and no matter how hard it is to accept, we must really realize that some people can really put money over years of friendship. I also learned my lesson on this the hard way. Next time, just lend money that you will not really miss, the amount of which is something that you will be comfortable not seeing again. And also, learn to say no.

So annoying. I have a friend who borrowed from me money last December and it is almost four months now. Though, I did not ask her to pay me, she is very sorry to not still paying her debts because she has no regular job this time.I understand her as she is still keeping in touch with me.

Hi friend, you are very kind, finally, you will given the money, but I think your friend is not a good people. It is a good idea if you never borrow your money anymore, although she ask you. I hope God will blessing you.

i'm sorry you had to discover the true nature of your friend in this manner. as i said in my previous response, "say goodbye to your friend and money". however, i think it is not the loss of the money that's hurting you. it's about getting disillusioned and losing a friend. i think if she responded to your messages and asked for more time, you would have understood the predicament she's in. the fact that she's ignoring you is the one that hurts most, not the loss of 500.

So many can narrate pleasant and sad experience of borrowing and lending. Its a question of enjoying the Divine Providence. There are episodes where guys lend money and if they find the person poor and genuine, they will not take the interest. There are people who even will tell you not to pay back. How many householders have been saved from loss for the expression of having found fortune, because an anonymous guy gives money ! But life is not all positive. There are people who have no moral conscience. Even in the classroom, the students lend and borrow and at time certain students will never pay, then when a long time passes by they even have the courage to say that they have already paid it. And even they adjure it in the name of God. When a thing or the money goes out of your hands, you are helpless. You never know whether that thing or the money will come back. Some people have no peace until and unless they have paid off their debt. My Dad when he fatally hit an accident, he would pester my Mummy to go and pay 0ff that debt before dying. However my mummy would assure him that she has alredy has paid it, he would still continue pleading.

Why would anyone behave like that with a friend who did a favor by giving the money, this is just ridiculous.Such people set bad examples and then and then those who really need help are denied.In my opinion you should end your friendship with her because she is not worth it, a true friend would never do something like that.Best wishes.

I don't think you should ever help her again. She doesn't sound like a very good friend, real friends would not do that to each other. I think it is really sad that she is ignoring your messages like that too. All you can do now is take it as a lesson learned and never help again because you know she will never pay it back.

This is the last time you will send her a message? And why do you give her money at all? Clear is she is NOT a friend. Also clear is she will NOT pay you back. And clear to me is that if you ever need money or help you can NOT knock on her door. I think it would be wiser if you ignore this friend and refuse to give money. You should know better by now.

Well dont hope that she pay you back,in that she act she is not interisted to pay Or iether she is still no money that why she ignore you because also She is shy that she didnt pay you.Next time dont let her borrow again.

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