I Don't Understand This...

According to Biblical's principle, the bond of oneness, between husband and wife is broken and with this she is free to remarry as long as she keeps one condition: She must marry a Christian with same faith in the Lord and of course base on genuine love.

am not yet married. But, after I marry, i am sure we both will live together whole life till end. So, there is no necessity of re-marry.

That is such a selfish and cruel thing to say to someone that you supposedly love. I am assuming these people are young. Now anything could happen where she would be come a widow very young. Those words would play on her mind any time she even considered moving on with her life. How unfair that would be.

I think that love is selfless and not selfish. To remarry is really up to the person left. And to have your loved one tell you he/she forbids you to find love again after they are gone is selfish. This really shows the character of the person.

As much as it hurts to thinks about it. Yes I would want my husband to be happy and to find someone that loves him as much as I do and our kids. I don't think I could be that heartless and keep my husband from moving on. Especially my kids I would want them to have someone share those mom moments with.

If you love someone dearly, you would want that someone to be happy all the time regardless of whether you are around or not. There is no need to discuss between a couple if the one left in this world should or should not find another love. It just does not serve any purpose. What happens after something has happened nobody will know. It is not something that can be decided before hand. It is not that if you want to love again, then you can go out and search for someone to love. It is not a yes or no answer. For me, I won't mind that if it means happiness for my wife after I have gone.

I think that is very selfish of him really. Is he a jealous type already? And to say that he would haunt her forever! Wow, that's pretty crazy! I would want my husband to try to find someone to be happy with if I were to pass away. And he would want me to do the same. Although I love him so much I dont know how I would go on without him. I feel like there are no other people out there that would even come close. My moms husband passed away and she has dated a little about 2 years after he passed on. But I think that she misses him so much also and it just doesn't feel right to her to be with anyone else. I also told my husband that if I were on life support to live to just let me go because I want him to be able to have peace with me and then hopefully find someone else.

I heard from friends, their partner is telling, 'just think about our kids and don’t remarry..' They are telling it as a joke but I felt they may be telling the same seriously. Some partners are very much possessive and that may be the reason telling like that. I think females are ready to sacrifice their life for kids and may stay for kids without remarrying. However, people are different and may change decisions according to the circumstances.

We are different. I think that friend of yours is so possessive, I think he has his own reasons. If am going to die and I left my husband behind, I'll be first one to look for a new wife. Seriously, I don't want him to live in a miserable life.

I don't know whether someone can haunt other forever after passing away. Widowers and widows are allowed to marry again. From the standpoint of religious and moral is correct and allowed.

It is really disgusting if somebody is saying like that, Even how a person can say like that , it is totally selfish and this means that a person do not care another one, No i would not be okay at any conditon

i think u should not left in our life because we got real love very typical case in our life i am very lucky so i got my real love i realy love her more ,,,,because she care me and love me take care my all time,,,i make me happy every critical situation so i am very thank full to god,,,,for giving me loving and caring life partner,,i have seen lots of example in my life husband and wife fighting to each other just stuff taking with friend its not fear,,,we should try to understand each other and never go other person comments and thought ,,,that is true relation???

Yes, I am a giving loving person, so I would want my spouse to be happy and find love if that is what they wish to do.

I feel the same way i mean unless we're old lol but i really dont think anyone would stay single forever. I wouldnt and if your spouse loves you they wouldnt want u to be lonely for the rest of your life!!!

Personally this is heartless and you would think they would want the person to be happy and move on. I know when someone you love passes, especially a spouse, it is a hard time, and should be the person still alive if someone else comes along to marry them or not. I would always want the best for my husband if I passed first, and he the same for me, so if that meant choosing to marry again, then let it happen.

Well.... first I don't think you need a spouse to be happy. If anything, I think marriage makes people unhappy in our world today. You have something that is rather rare in our society. However, beyond that people in our society have lost a broad view of life. When you don't believe in something beyond our limited existence, and everything revolves around ourselves, and the here and now, then what they want is what they want. Mine. No one else's. You belong to me! Me, myself, and I! Selfishness is natural in a limited world of 1... the individual. So in his case, he wants her to be dedicated exclusively to himself. Of course, if someone is 'other' centered, then you want whatever is best for the other person. If that's for them to remarry, so bit it.

My husband and I both believe in resurrection. In this regard, if one us would die definitely the remaining one would remain faithful to the other.

I once talked about this issue with my wife. she hoped we all live to a ripe old age, she said, we would company each other for more longer time in our life. I said I doesn't hope you live lonely if I passed.

I believe everyone has his/her right to decide whether one is in need of a companion after his/her spouse passed . I do not mind my spouse to find his love again if I do not survive before him. He is free to manage his life affairs and good for him to have someone he loves as his companion .

It is not fair for my partner to be lonely the rest of his life simply I am gone. He deserved to be happy. My only request is to love our kids . Once he failed in this, then I will really haunt him.