infidelity.......

I believe they would be history with me. I don't need a husband or a friend like that. There are too many good people in the world that doesn't cheat on their spouse.

Personally, i haven't experience this kind of situation yet in my life. But what i have experiences was that i was being cheated by my ex-hubby, having an affair with hid office mate. it was too painful that i was forced to gave up our marriage because i was too devastated. When we got married, i gave up everything for him. i resigned from my work because i wanted to give what is best for him and to be a good wife to him. but all the sacrifices and efforts to make our marriage work became worthless because of what he did.... But after 4 years of being separated, i alreafdy have moved on. I'm happy now with someone who accepted me despite my status and odd experiences. :)

This happened to me in my previous marriage and it ended our relationship.I just could not trust him anymore.We had kids so I made the effort to forgive him but he just did again with someone else.He did not appreciate my love and commitment to our relationship so I threw the little %%%%% out.I had had enough.

IF this happens to me, i wouldn't mind losing both of them, husband and best friend. i don't want a cheating husband and a traitor friend. being betrayed by two people that i love and respect would be very painful. this indeed would be a disaster. it would hurt bad but i know i'll get over the negative feelings in time.