Is it right to take presents from ex-boyfriend?

In My opinion,It could be that He intends this expensive gift as something to try and make her reconsider their relationship..If She has moved on with someone else,having no intention of seeing him again,Taking things from him now could be considered leading him on..If I was the Guy in her New relationship,I'd be wondering why she was still accepting gifts from an ex!

It was not proper to use an expensive gift to get someone back. I would not accept an ex gift if he still has hope of getting back with me. It would have been better if he had not given her a gift at all, because it would be like bribing.

This has personally happened to me. I tried to deny the gift, because I am no longer in a romantic relationship with this person. However, the giver insisted that I receive it, because it was just an "I'm thinking of you" gift. and this person acted terribly insulted that I would refuse it. So, against my better judgment I received the gift. Before I let my new love know about it, I posed a hypothetical question about the appropriateness of me receiving a gift. That discussion did not go so well. I have the gift, can't give it back without hurting feelings and plan to give it to another friend who can make use of it.

Thanks for this discussion Well i think better not to accept, if she has left him and has new admirer.

I think its all this guys fault.He is very stupid here giving an expensive gift to get her back.If she doesn't like him anymore why he is even wasting his time on her.He really should move on.

I think she did wrong in accepting a gift from a boy with whom she has herself ended the relationship. Presenting a gift to the girl clearly shows that the boy loves her even now, but when the girl decided to move on she shouldn't have accepted the present. Firstly, I wouldn't have left such a loving boy and if for some reason I would have parted my ways, I would not have accepted the gift from him.

If something was bought with a specific person in mind, that gift should be given to the person for whom it was bought, because it was bought with that person in mind. It's like a diamond that was bought for a girl before a man asks to marry her. If he gives her a ring, it is hers..it was bought for her. No other woman would want a ring bought for another person, they would want a ring bought with them in mind. So...yes, it is fine to take a gift and receive it graciously from the person who bought the gift. I would hope if they were suited for each other, they would be able to work out their differences. It actually takes communication from both parts for that to happen. Good luck to your friends.

Hi friend, sad to hear about this story. As you mentioned the girl is having a new boy friend now, so she is not deserved for the gift, i wonder why she take the gift even though she don't have interest with her ex? may be she like his gift, money and other spending expect him. How selfish the girl is. Better to keep distance from this kind of persons.

No I guess not. I don't want that gift to be the root of our misunderstanding with my boyfriend. I am respecting my present relationship and the affair in the past should be set aside and will not entertain anymore. Just simply forget the past.

Well, I don't think that is right. If one doesn't wish to be with someone, then they should completely cut off... Well but again sometimes you cant calm the temptation of owning some gifts. I have some gifts of people who are no more in my life, but I have kept them to resonate their memories time to time.... Also they are nice, don't want to part with them.

I believe that giving or taking presents to your ex is nothing bad, if you end your relationships on a good vibe wwithout anyone getting hurt and if you are good friends, then I believe it isn't bad, but if you hurt someone and then just get together with someone else, than I don't think it is best to accept presents form ex's.

It all depends on the situation and the reasons for break up. If both are separated on good terms, then no worries in accepting the gifts or presents. If it's an ugly war between both, then it's better to stay off.

I think it is not right to get a present from ex because we don't have any relations now. Common friends won't give any gifts without festivals or any good reasons. Being a girl, the best way is to earn things by herself, not receive any present from the person without good relationship.

If she is currently in another relationship and wants nothing to do with the ex then she should not ever accept a gift from him. That is giving a man mixed signals and false hope and that is not fair to him. She has already broken his heart by breaking up with him, accepting his gifts under false pretense can completely shatter his ego and ruin the next womans chances on a great catch. Tell your friend please do not be selfish.

in my opinion they should take action because they know very well stranger boys have done all thing with doughter and after someday may be them doughter told i am pragenent that time they shock what r u saying dear how can it be possible who is he? then how can you do that thing with them???so plaese i am telling my all friend we should care your self all time do not provide your love any stringer with out any relation ship ???